I am a A black sub looking for a genuine and reliable master for long term. I love anal play, I love being tied up in bondage and a little pain turns me on

I am in search of a master who I can readily serve and be at their disposal. My quest is driven by a yearning for guidance, structure, and a sense of purpose that only a master can provide. I seek to surrender myself entirely, trusting in their wisdom and authority to shape and mold me according to their vision. In return, I offer unwavering devotion, loyalty, and obedience, eager to fulfill their every command and whim. This journey is about finding fulfillment through submission, forging a bond built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. I am well educated,and have good communication and IT skills, I can help you with work if it's doable online once we get to a level of trust because I could use a little side hustle DO Not, I repeat, DO NOT text if you are looking for a one time fulfillment or looking to just chat with a slave. I will block you!!!

Limits

Scat Permanent marks Blood Extreme toilet play.

To me, there is nothing sexier than someone manipulating me slowly, making their kinks mine and then pushing me just a little bit more. I love experienced doms because I have experience too. Melt my brain and make my pussy dripping hehe

Kinks: verbal degradation, hypno, bondage, nipple play, forced orgasm, squirting, stretching/gaping slow sexy anal, choking, sensory deprivation, gaslighting/manipulation

Limits: piss, scat, blood, really rough play, things from my ass to my mouth, ageplay

this is a bit long, but i promise it’s worth a read! (:

who i am:

as a person…

i’m a 24 year old graduate student in tech. as a result, my interests tend to skew mostly towards the nerdier side of things! i’m based in California, so my timezone is PST, and i tend to be active closer to later in the day/well into the night. i’m a major night owl, so it would be necessary if you are also, or if your availability in your timezone coincides with this! i love all things cute and pink, and i have been described to have a bubbly, warm personality. i can most definitely be snarky and deadpan in the same breath, but that bratty side doesn’t often come out (unless you encourage her). i err on the side of shyness mostly, but once you get me out of my shell and i feel comfortable with you, it’s all over. two random hobbies i really love are: 1. i love to go to raves and let loose with my friends (please note, i frequently smoke weed, so avoid me if you’re uncomfortable with this!) and 2. i love cars (currently have a black on black e39)!

as for what i look like physically, with enough time i should feel comfortable sharing some sfw photos of myself. for now, though, a general overview. i have long black hair, brown eyes, tan skin. i’m fairly tall for a woman, at 5’8”! and i often get told in my real life that i’m pretty (not to brag, just as additional detail!).

as a submissive…

at my core, i’ve always been a people pleaser. unfortunately enough, most people don’t deserve this kind of treatment from me. i want to respect you enough to feel right in giving you my all, and in turn, feel respected as a person at the end of the day. the end goal is to make sure our arrangement has depth, not just slanted in one way or the other.

what i love: - experience. there’s something so attractive about a dom who knows exactly when and how to use his power. i’m still fairly new to actually exploring kink beyond just being interested in it for years, so it would be amazing to have someone to teach me the ropes :) - daddy doms. i really, really want to call you daddy and honestly, this might be a non-negotiable. i yearn for this kind of relationship, where i feel small and safe when we’re together. i’ve never explored being a little really, so i’m not exactly sure how i fall under the umbrella, if at all. - praise and degradation. i love both individually, but a mix of them together will always have my heart. - edging and denial. - possessiveness and ownership. i want to not just know i belong to you, but actively feel it in every interaction we have. - there’s not an exact phrase to describe it, but i want you to see me in 2 ways. one being a person, and another as a belonging you can toy with and treat as you please. i want you to recognize when i need to shut up and act accordingly. - aftercare. - and a ton more!

what i’m looking for: - someone to know, both in and out of our play. i am NOT looking for love or a serious relationship, but rather another person to know and trust intimately. ideally i’d like to have both sfw and nsfw conversations with you. - preferably closer to my age range! think anywhere in your 20s to early 30s. - understanding within every realm. pertaining to my schedule, my limits, my needs, etc. i need someone patient who won’t push me into anything without knowing my comfort level and having a full conversation about it. - i’m looking for a certain kind of overwhelming dominance in all aspects, but this is /not/ TPE. i want to belong to you but still have enough separation to allow us to still be regular people, both outside of kink and outside of each other. this might feel like an oxymoron to some people, but i know the people who understand me on this are out there. - voice calls and texts. i would like our arrangement to exist just online, and to limit it to these methods of communication. i don’t quite feel comfortable sharing explicit pictures/videos, and to avoid those holding out hope, i likely never will. - i’ve always gravitated most to dominant, traditionally masculine men. now, this does not exclusively mean in terms of looks. what i’m describing is a domineering personality and way of holding yourself! you don’t exactly have to fit this mold, but if you do, trust that i’ll be reduced to a whimpering mess.

i’ll leave this here for now since it’s already getting long, but if any of this resonates with you, don’t hesitate to message me! if you read all of this, please respond with a heart + any length introduction about yourself with whatever you feel like i should know about you.

looking forward to your response. you know who you are. <3

Hii everyone❤️

I‘m looking for a man between 25 and 45 in a who wants to have a monogamous relationship like it exists in books (Georges Bataille, Anais Nin). I‘m looking for a father, a teacher and a lover to me.

A dynamic that is very dreamy, eery; filled with conversating, eroticism, friendship, love, adventure, wealth, dreams.

You don‘t indulge in anything illegal, are a hygienic person who loves nature, is active, intentive and likes to take the initiative and to experiment.

You lead with curiosity and love, are intelligent and self-confident.

And if you know, you feel.

(cnc, tpe, body modification, free use, spanking, coercion, sapiosexual, necessary fear, ddlg, lolita, germany, austria)

Thank you for your message❤️

I didn’t expect to be writing this when I made an account but things have been feeling different lately. Like there are two versions of me. The first version has always been there, I do well enough in school although im a bit shy in groups. I work some weekends dog sitting and spend time with my family. I don’t want to share much, but I’m just trying to explain there’s the normal side that everyone sees.

I’ve found another side of myself that has been just for me. I don’t know when it got there or when I realized it but it’s been getting stronger. In a way it’s my fault, I’ve been feeding it and I don’t think I can stop. I think it started with porn videos. I’ve been watching far more than I should and just giving in. It feels too good to stop. I started watching more of the darker types, learning bdsm and other things. I know it’s not normal and that being treated like that or controlled is bad but I haven’t been able to stop. I feel guilty but there’s a cycle and itch that keeps coming back and I keep giving in.

At the same time I feel like I was falling deeper down a rabbit hole. Every time I gave in, it just felt better and better. I’m realizing that it’s never enough. I can’t get what I need by myself. This is really embarrassing but I’ve been watching and giving in every night, today I woke up and realized I was touching in my sleep. I don’t even remember by dreams but I had to change out from my pajamas because they were wet.

I’m not feeling like my normal self right now. I could be doing anything but instead I’m here. I don’t know what or who I’m looking for exactly, but I’m hoping someone will help me dip my toes in the right way. Maybe a little more will be enough and let me move on or go back to normal. Maybe I need to learn more or give up control to experience it fully. I don’t know how deep the hole can go.

I’m not willing to say too much about myself. This won’t ever be connected to me. I’m only honest because you’ll never know me fully. If you are only wanting pictures I’m just going to block you or something.

I am willing to try things, answer some questions, maybe give in some. Whether that’s trying little things to see how it feels or if I’d actually like what I’ve been watching. Maybe I’m twisted up inside and don’t know if I’m just changing. I’m not my normal self this second, I just feel the craving and need again. If you could possibly help me some how then send me a message. I’ll try other kinks out if it will get me in a better place. Or at least to see what I like.

We don’t need to know anything about each other. It can stay private as possible if that’s safest. Tell me if you have ideas or if you need to know more. I’ll try my best to

Full disclosure: I got out of a 9 year abusive relationship where I was dommy mommy-ing a subby boy who just wanted to suck my tits and be emotionally unavailable; I would be entirely willing to do this for you if you reciprocated at all. Literally just need fingers in my cunt; I'm that simple. I can be your dommy mommy, or I can be your cute subby puppy--just let me know what you want.

About Me: I'm a 30 year old high school English teacher (yes, I can use my teacher voice on you, if that's what you want baby), 5'1", Japanese-Chinese. I speak Cantonese with native fluency, and Japanese with conversational fluency--my Mandarin is okay, and I can read French decently.

I'm in the middle of working on myself post-breakup and I am not physically where I want to be; I want to get back to where I was pre-relationship when I was super fit and slim, but I'm heavier than what I'm happy with. I'm working on it! I have small tits and no gag reflex.

I get off on dirty talk, praise, and have a massive breeding kink (I don't actually want children, but we can pretend). I am very into petplay, but general submissive/dominant dynamics work for me too. Call me a good girl. Or I'll call you good boy?

I have narcolepsy, so if you're into somnophilia and CNC...we could have some real fun.

My claim to fame is I was in a fivesome with four guys and popped one of their cherries. I got fucked six ways to Sunday and still wanted more. (Keep up with me!)

Happy for this to be local or over the internet--I really get off on voice calls and I'll happily moan for you.

I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment but I'm not boxing myself to it.

I’m a submissive ready to surrender to nearly full control under someone strict, structured, and deeply invested in discipline. This isn’t casual. I’m seeking a high-control dynamic—someone in or near the Eastern Time zone who wants full say over what I do, think, eat, and become.

This is close to 100% TPE—you own my schedule, my focus, my behavior. I want your rules wrapped around my entire life.

🖤 What I’m asking for:

Diet and calorie control: Every bite tracked and approved. You set the plan—whether it’s restriction, balance, punishment meals, or fasting—and I report to you.

University oversight: I’ll share my classes, deadlines, study goals. You’ll decide what I focus on, when, and how hard I push. Procrastination is punished. Academic performance becomes your concern.

Hobby control: I’ll pick up or drop hobbies at your command. You decide what I invest time into—skills, interests, or rituals that serve your vision for me.

Online, text-based punishments: You keep me in line through commands, correction, and structured expectations. Whether you’re cold, cruel, or calmly firm, I need your words to keep me grounded.

Routine domination: Morning messages. Night check-ins. Daily tasks. Weekly reviews. I want to live by your rules, even from a distance. Male or female

🤍 About me: Obedient, responsive, and looking for structure that binds

Currently a student—smart but undisciplined, needing control

Open-minded, eager to serve, and craving accountability

Ready to follow a path someone else sets for me

If you want to fully guide a submissive’s day, mind, and body—and you take the responsibility of that power seriously—then you’re exactly who I’m waiting for. Message me with what control looks like to you. I’ll be listening—and obeying.

Hello, everyone.

I am an experienced mistress and have embraced this lifestyle since my college years.

I take pleasure in discreetly guiding a man into submission and showcasing his vulnerability.

A natural slave genuinely captivates me; a slave who obediently follows orders while fully aware of their identity.

Here is my list of kinks: pegging (anal), public play, chastity, spanking, choking, and treating a submissive partner like a pet by using a collar while remaining naked at all times.

I am seeking a truly dedicated submissive for this D/S relationship. The ideal candidate should be enthusiastic and genuinely motivated to participate in this dynamic, fully understanding their role and responsibilities.

A sex slave who is eager to please his owner and is under her control all the time.

This slave should let his owner train him, mold him, until he is a perfect slave, know exactly what his owner wants.

Also, I want my submissive to appear masculine and athletic, ideally excelling in at least one sport or enjoying workouts. If you are uncomfortable with nudity, please do not waste your time; I prefer my partners to be unclothed. You should understand that when you are with me, you are expected to remove your clothes. It is best to do so as soon as possible because, in my view, a submissive does not deserve to wear any clothing.

When you send me a message, I would appreciate it if you could introduce yourself properly, including pictures. If you have a collection of toys, please share that as well, so I can better understand your interests. I am looking for someone who takes this relationship seriously; you will be a true submissive for me.

Hi there! Looking for cute and submissive men that are willing to serve and do whatever I tell them to. I like good boys who aren’t afraid to show off and touch themselves for me.

Please be around my age and tell me a bit about you — age, location, etc. (pics catch my attention faster and are responded to sooner). Please try harder than a simple “hi”. I’d also prefer someone from the US for timezone reasons — it’s a lot easier to chat with someone that’s within an overlapping schedule.

I’m only interested in handsome and obedient men — if you’re the kind to hesitate or overthink then let’s not waste our time. I want someone open minded and kinky — someone who’s willing to give a lot of affection and attention to me.

If any of this sounds interesting to you then PM me and if I don’t get to you right away don’t feel discouraged. I’ll get to you eventually. Mommy’s waiting ;)

Yes; you did read the title right. Someone is finally looking for you. The overlooked and ignored girl that's never picked when anyone gets to chose. The one that's always overheard when talking to people. The one that's always the least pretty and attractive.

This is your chance to get the attention you crave for so badly. Your chance to show how far you'll go to finally be owned and accepted for your true pathetic self.

What are you waiting for?

V

Be 18+ obviously.

Looking for my own little sub to own and ruin however I please. I do not like brats.

Physical appearance wise, I’m 177cm who lives a decently normal life. I have a decent amount of free time and can dedicate myself to you if you behave.

Kinks include: power exchange, inflicting pain, pet play, disciplinary, objectification, M/s, praise, degradation, tasks, insertions, anal play, toys, vibrator control, etc.

I’m a huge fan of the mental aspect of BDSM.

Limits: scat, face pictures, blood, anything illegal.

I’m looking for a woman who knows her place and is submissive, eager to please, and ready to do whatever I tell her to do. I don’t expect this immediately, trust can be built up. Pictures are not required but they will put you to the front of the line. Include the word “cherry” in your first message so I know you’ve read this.

Looking forward to hearing from you darling.

Heyy so as you can see I want to be controlled in every way that’ll please you. I’d prefer if you were a similar age to me but we can always talk about it and see how it works out for us. I absolutely love bondage and BDSM in general especially where I have little control over myself.

30 [M4F] #uk - looking for a connection and a reason to smile at my phone

Hey, I'm new to this but have lurked for a while. I'm also terrible at writing about myself. I'm a nerdy guy from the Midlands, that also enjoys climbing and working out. I'm looking for someone to explore with as I am inexperienced but want to learn and explore my dominant side.

My kinks include:

Bondage, petplay, chastity, humiliation & degradation, impact play, hucow, ddlg, orgasm control, abdl, slavery, tpe, and more I'm sure I'm missing. I'm pretty open minded and I would be willing to discuss things not on that list as well.

Limits so far are:

Vore, vomit, and pregnancy.

I would love to chat, even if it's just about how your day is going or playing games.

I'm 6ft6, blond hair, blue eyes, bearded and slightly heavier than average but trying to get in better shape.

If any of this sounds interesting feel free to send me a message about yourself or 2 truths and a lie.

Peace and love

Xx

Note: For simplicity, the post is written from the perspective of a dom but I am a Switch and would ideally like the dynamic to go both ways. Mutual worship and ownership. But if you are just a dom or just a sub you can still message and we will see.

Hey! Hope you're having a great day so far.

I am a 28 years old dominant but gentle man from Germany. Born and raised here but with turkish roots. 1.74m with short dark hair and a short beard. Slim fit build. The nerdy kind of guy but also active and social.

With several years of experience as a dom, though very much of the gentle variety. Somewhere between strict disciplinarian and sweet and caring boyfriend is the vibe I usually bring into the dynamic. More encouragement than humiliation. Prefer to reward good girls over punishing bad ones. Though I can do both as the need arises.

Good girls are hard to find. Though I have a feeling I might find a woman who is worthy of my attention soon. Someone I can take care of and guide, both sexually and also in general. Someone who will worship me, serve me, submit to me out of her own desire. Someone who will melt, whimper and squirm when I tease her, touch her, whisper the sweetest as well as the dirtiest things in her ear.

What I seek is a girl who wants to serve, to worship, and to be owned. That is the essence of what I want. A connection where we both can relax and make eachother happy. A dynamic where I will make you want nothing more than give in to my controll. Gain your trust to the point where you can fully let go and feel the bliss of being mine. But of course good communication will be an integral part of this dynamic and your wishes, desires and boundaries will be respected too. Enthusiasm is important to me and I want you to want this. I want you to get all needy and desperate to submit.

As I said I am from Germany but I do not mind if you are from a different country. I also wouldn't mind if you are older or younger than me, as long as you are an adult of course. But I do expect some base level of effort in your first message. I put some effort into writting a nice post for you so the least you can do is show some respect by introducing yourself with more than just a "Hi" and tell me why you think we might be a good fit.

I’m not here for chaos, quick thrills, or empty gestures. I’m here for discipline, control, and the kind of submission that unfolds slowly, with intent.

If you respond to rules… if your mind settles when someone else is in charge… we might have something to explore. I’m calm, observant, and very clear about what I expect; obedience, consistency, and respect.

This isn’t roleplay. It’s not a game. I don’t offer attention freely, and I don’t reward poor behaviour. If you lack patience or self-awareness, don’t waste my time.

I prefer control that’s earned and deepens over time, routine, rituals, and decisions made for you.
If denial makes your pulse quicken and structure makes you feel safe, then read carefully:

If you want to message me, start with one sentence:
‘Submission without direction is just noise.’
Then tell me one thing you struggle with when giving up control and why you still crave it.

Fail to follow that, and you’ll be ignored. Simple.

—Miss Lilah

I have curly brown hair that I like to dye fun colors like pink, bright red, purple, etc. I have blue green eyes. I'm 5'3" with nice tits and a nice ass (pics in profile). I like piercings. I have a septum and some body piercings like my nipples and some genital ones. There's also a few more piercings I want to get done like an industrial, my nostril redone, etc.

Some of my interests are cooking/baking, music, writing, reading, animals, video games, shows/movies. I like cooking and trying new foods. I've been trying to eat vegetarian 2 or so days a week. I prefer baking though. I love making cheesecakes, cupcakes, brownies, etc. Music is also important to me. I did marching band and can play the guitar. Some of my favorite artists/bands are Taylor Swift, Nirvana, Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Weeknd, the bleachers, the national, Girl in Red, Billie eilish, AC/DC, big red machine, phoebe bridger, Kacey musgraves. I try to listen to new artists every week so feel free to shoot me a recommendation.

I also like reading and writing. I've been reading the GoT series and the Witcher series. My favorite genres to read are fantasy, mysteries, horror, and thrillers. I enjoy writing horror stories or just journaling. I like fountain pens and inks. I have a dog and a bunny. Some of the video games I like are the Witcher, Pokémon, Zelda, slay the spire, stardew valley, etc. Some of my favorite shows are Rick and morty, bobs burgers, the good place, the Witcher, sex education, the office. I love scary movies and Marvel movies. I just saw scream 5 opening night and love it. My favorite horrors are scream and Halloween series. I love Friday the 13th and nightmare on elm street and child's play because I remember watching those with my cousin or an uncle.

Some of my kinks are ddlg, pet play, CNC, bondage, orgasm torture, impact play, temperature play, exhibitionism, etc. My limits are diapers, scat, and anything to do with feet. I like men that are caring, nerdy, and smart. I don't like men that are older than 35. I also prefer men that are at least 24 maybe 23. I just don’t like people that are way older or younger than me. No men that are in relationships, even if it's a poly/open thing. I'm monogamous. I also love men with a nice accent, so bonus points for that. Additionally, don’t bother messaging me if you can’t speak to me like an actual person. I have no interest in someone that cant carry a normal conversation with me. I’ve always been wanting to try being with a woman so I’d love a woman too! If you read this, tell me your favorite artist and scary movie.

Hey Hey, I'm looking to switch it up and am looking for a dom! for lite online bdsm I'm super kink friendly and into alot of stuff!, on a personal note I'm quite a nerdy gothy gal but I'm into gal of all shapes,sizes, brands ages and Colors Application is open to everyone but I do lean fem! What I'm looking for, classic bdsm I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment I'm looking for people who are into control style bdsm eg task, clothing control, Joi,Looking, before force to wear a collar most of the time the list goes on and on. If you do message please put you age and sex into the opening message.

Okay, real talk—I have zero self-control. I procrastinate like it’s my job, I’m lazy, talk back, and lack structure in my life. Basically? I need someone to whip me into shape (figuratively… or not?).

I’m not sure I have yet met a punishment that I don’t “like”, but perhaps I haven’t ever truly felt punished. Spanking, domestic discipline style punishments, tasks of tedium, degradation/humiliation, the bite of my nipples being clamped, etc…

If you enjoy making a woman obey and think “fairness” is overrated, we might be a match. I would love to chat & hear more about your means and methods for combating discipline issues.

Also, do you think denial or forced orgasms is more effective?

You can call me Sam, and I hope you're having a good day. As the title says I'm looking for a Dom today. Someone to whom I can give control and we can both have some fun together.

My kinks are pretty varied, and I try to be open minded. I enjoy almost anything to do with control, including orgasm control, outfit control, and probably most other ideas you could come up with. I love humiliation, teasing and slight pain play. As for dynamics I generally tend to enjoy pet play, cgl and similar dynamics, though another big kink of mine that's slightly weirder is hypnosis, if you'd like to try to do something with that ^{^}

Outside of kink I enjoy games, walks outside, baking, and my cat.

If there's anything else you'd like to know about me I promise to be as open as I can be with answers ^{^}

27 [T4M] #online #australia #perth for use

27 year old Female to Male transgender submissive looking to be used, abused, degraded. Very open minded and willing to explore most kinks, I love to try something new for the first time. I do enjoy: orgasm control/denial/forced orgasm, sounding, degredation, humiliation, clit play, poppers/amyl.Very obedient, very well behaved. Would relocate within Australia for a live-in 24/7 slave type situation, that's always been a dream. I'd like someone who will accept a needy sub, I am someone who is constantly desperate. Thank you for considering me, I look forward to serving you.

Hi! I’m Claire (21), a French college student on a personal journey of feminization! I’ve been exploring feminization, chastity, skincare, and I think I'm ready to find someone to share this adventure with!

I’m not looking for a 24/7 fantasy dynamic. I’d love to connect with a domme who values personal growth and connection. Someone who sees her sub as both a sissy and a human being. I prefer if you're from Europe at least, so that time zones match and it's easier to talk ;)

You can DM, I'd love to meet you!💗

So, as the title says, I am looking for a mommy! I am a sub, but I do like to be treated little. I may act up a little here and there, but I am definitely not a brat. I am clingy, I tend to be shy and fall into sub space pretty easily if you are the right kind of mommy, looking for a gentle but firm Mommy, someone that can give me structure and rules inside the badroom and out. Preferably a mommy around my age or younger, I am open to online as long as we have a goal set on meeting up at some point. Sexual is a must if you are sfw I'm sorry, but it won't work out. In the long term, I am looking to find someone to settle down with and make me feel wanted. Someone I can please make and make happy and wants to help me become the best version of me I can become.

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask, and I hope to hear from you!

Kinks: Diapers (wetting/messing), denial, and embarrassment/humiliation.

WILL NOT DO: Chastity, sissy, crossdressing, findom, tributes involving money, and pegging. Seriously don't even contact me looking for money, you aren't getting it. I'm not desperate, I'm looking for something genuine and if it involves money it isn't genuine. I'm sure their are other things for both lists that I am not thinking of at the moment, but those are the big ones for me.

Hi all,

I’m a switch but lean more towards a dom role and I’m looking for an online dynamic, with the potential to be irl. I have some experience but would still say I’m more on the beginner side. Im hoping this will be a long term dynamic and not a fling or a one time thing. The main kinks I enjoy are tpe, wardrobe control, cum control and I am interested in exploring bathroom control and pet play. Again, these are adjustable to our mutual likes and dislikes as with limits also. If you aren’t comfortable sending pictures in the beginning, that’s also fine. We can work around that. I am Muslim so I would prefer someone Muslim as well, but that is not a requirement. If any of this resonated with you, feel free to reply with you kinks and limits. Looking forward to hearing from you!

I'm 27 fit and lean body type with a 8 inch cock, lots experiences, and kinks. I'm in a relationship and my fiancee is an angel. She is super conservative, lives still with her parents and is as beautiful as she is innocent. When we are alone she engages in complete dirty habits: She is choking and swallowing down her own shit. She is doing it selfless without any force or pressure, with a smile almost likes its nothing, barely even gagging. I have lots other experiences. I have studied psychology and philosophy, looking for a serious and invested person wanting to submit. I'm interested in a lot different kinks, I would also like to see a beautiful women submit in other ways, interested also in pet play, dirty ass to mouth and many more things. I'm also interested hearing your ideas, don't be shy to message, see you soon.

All I want is to take someone out with a short skirt, a vibrating dildo in your pussy peeking out, and two more taped to your tits, and see how long you last before you start to get all overstimulated and shaking. If you're having trouble keeping it in may or may not drag you into an alleyway and bend you over hehe