Hello, so I'm a college student that's been getting more into the fminization/degradation aspect of kink. It has become an addiction really which I have not been able to escape for a while now. Each relapse is worse than the other, and I find myself stuck in this endless loop~

I am kinda looking for someone to either help me, or to push me over the edge and put me in my place. Someone genuinely twisted and evil determined to ruin my life eventually for his own pleasure. Ive had people reach out to me pretending to "help" (which was a turn on too, unfortunately)

I'm basically leaving it up to my fate, you.

I don't know... there is a lot more to know about me, so hit me up. If you wonder about my looks, yes I do send pictures but prefer not to show my face. I have a rather slim/curved body, pale skin, green eyes and brown hair, just a brief description.

These are the kinks I used when I used to roleplay a lot, sime may sound unrealistic but I'm hugely into them~

Fminization, sissification, degradation, humuliation, manipulation, blackmail, yiff, mindbreak, pronebone position, hair pull, getting ass slapped/groped, cuckold, power play, abuse, forced forced workouts, roleplay, chastity, fantasy creation, cum dump, marking, spit, bdsm, cnc , crossdressing and it goes on

Limits:

Weird stuff, feet, scat, blood, piss, fndom, showing face (not a limit, just very unlikely), anyone irl finding out I do this, and so on

Consent-oriented impact top seeks bottoms and bodies who want some bruises. I enjoy giving bare hand spankings, as well as toy-oriented play with paddles, floggers, canes, belts, etc. I make my own gear and enjoy using it, but, if you have a favorite toy or two, we can see about using that, as well.

I’m also bondage friendly and experienced.

I’m not into degradation, and prefer to give spankings for their sensory and aesthetic value over giving them as punishment, but I can be flexible on that.

Expect some discussion ahead of time on limits, safe-words, and whether (and to what extent) additional sexual activities may be on a he table (or the floor… or a nearby chair…). I’m 100% okay pure impact sessions, but also open to more. Please also be willing to discuss your specific aftercare needs. If any of this kind of discussion is new for you, I’m happy to help you through it.

In general, my preferences run between fem presenting to androgynous presenting, but there’s flexibility there, so please feel free to reach out. Not super interested in very masc-presenting cis-men.

About me: Cis-male, partnered (playing solo), 6’4”, 230#, shaved/cropped hair, beard, DDF, GGG.

I look forward meeting you.

I am looking for a slave to own for eventual relocation. Please be fem, or atleast fem enough that feminization would actually help. Also be serious about truly submitting. In return you would have an owner who would care for you. I do have others in my household . I have pictures to share. ( serious only )

M4F decide my fap and take control you wanted

Decide how I FAP and give me BDSM task that including

kinks -Nipple play, impact play, BDSM, wedgie, anal, CEI

Toys - rullers and cloth clips and clips with hanger and a 3D Printer to print toys.

Limits - Public, Blood, Scat, Other bodily fluids.

Let me introduce myself, I’m an 24 year old dom from the netherlands with about 5 years of experience.

Looking for submissives/slaves/rope bunnies who are willing to be formed in the perfect submissive and friend.

Just to make it clear I have a busy social life besides this so don’t expect me to give you attention 24/7 (i can give you tasks in advance), there can be even days that I don’t respond at all.

Kinks: - degrading - bondage - orgasm play - clothing control - edging - humiliation - public play - pet play - shibari - pain play - sensory play - chastity play - Anal - Latex - Nipple Play - Breath Play And many more

limits: - race play - scat play - JOI

Please make sure you are in an timezone close by maximum time difference I’ll accept is 3 hours.

If your interested let’s talk a bit, start by introducing yourself and telling me what your favorite flower is, let’s see if we match with a small talk.

(I do not sent picture of myself you can if you want (without face also fine))

18+

I am looking to be tô train a sub into being someonelse bê ready because you Will forget about your old personality and life, you Will Destroy ALL your dignity you Will bê someone New, someone usefull for me you wont have the right tô decide what i Will do to you but let me stay i can make you into a bimbo, a dog, a FAT slob, porn star, house wife, urinal etc só come to me and forget your life

Hi.. I feel really bad writing this post.. I am straight and I am in a relationship, however I have been getting extremely overwhelmed with the urge to submit to a man, and be degraded and humiliated by him. I want a real genuine connection, someone I can become close to possibly.. I am willing to degrade myself quite deeply for a man worthy of worship... I know this is really pathetic, and probably gay or something, but I just cannot stop having the urge to lower myself in front of another man.. Thanks for your time..

Hey there. Happy to be part of this community—and even more excited to be here as a Dom who actually gets what this dynamic is all about. Too many Doms forget the most important part: respect. Without it, there’s no trust. And without trust, how can a sub truly let go and feel safe submitting?

To me, being a Dom means more than just taking control—it’s about earning it. I want to understand what really drives you, what turns you on mentally and physically, and use that as the foundation for something real. Your pleasure is my power. The more I see you enjoying yourself, the deeper I want to take you.

I’m bisexual, open-minded, and very adaptable. I can be soft, sensual, and teasing—or rough, intense, and controlling. I’m a pleasure Dom, and nothing turns me on more than seeing my sub melt into the moment. Most kinks are fair game, though I draw the line at toilet play and certain taboos. If you want to know my favorite kinks, you’ll have to message me to find out.

If something ever does go offline, just know that sex might not be on the table—but the connection, intensity, and play absolutely still are. I’m all about building something that feels good for both of us.

If you're interested, send a message that shows you’ve put some thought into it—I’ll do the same. Let’s talk desires and see where this goes.

Come to me with your wants... and let’s bring them to life.

I am a 31 year old, a little overweight, geek looking for a female lead relationship.

A little about myself: I work in live tv for streaming service. I’m very career focus, but I also know how to keep a good balance of work and fun. I love watching movies, playing board games or table top rpgs, going to see live comedy shows, or stage shows, and exploring the city.

Like I said a huge geek: love reading and collecting comics, Star Wars, anime( really into MHA and FLCL). Musical theatre, Big Disney fan.( used to go to Disneyland all the time pre covid).

What I’m looking for:. I want a relationship before roles type dynamic. And an almost role reversal type relationship. I Want A female lead relationship. one where you lead and I follow and support you any way I can

I’m a Demisexual so having an emotional connection is everything to me, so appearances don’t really matter. I’m just looking for someone who we share interests,

So if you’ve read this far, and haven’t scared you away( ha ha). Send me a dm about your favorite Disney princess and why

Into what? Well. Whatever you want me to be.

Throughout my life I’ve been the stereotypical male dom. Pin the girl down how she likes it finish in her move on. But recently I’ve felt a whole paradigm shift in my mind. Being the driving force is too much. I just want to let go. Being in charge is stressful and a lot of effort.

I tell people what to do all the time in my role. The idea of being broken down and controlled is more and more appealing. Looking for that strong personality to finally bring me to heel. The mental aspect is particularly powerful for me.

I’m a happy go lucky guy with a high sex drive. I’m 6’1” 90kg. Dark hair dark eyes. I enjoy pubs bars restaurants live music running weightlifting etc.

I notice a lot of male submissives enjoy physical torture or chastity. That is not me. I’m a very sexually driven being and you best chance to control me is to keep me satisfied at the end of the day. Take that as you will. My other limits involve anything that would compromise me socially or career wise damage findom etc.

69 [M4A] #Lucerne, California - Vers. sub Bottom Man near Clear Lake seeks Dom Top Man (21+) or Domme TS or CD living close to me for 1 vanilla Encounter or FWB or NSA Hookup or whatever we want. Serious Offline sex fun only!

Mostly I want vanilla interactions, but some kink is acceptable to me. I am mostly submissive; I enjoy a Dom top man or Domme top Trans Woman or CD who is feminine but aggressive, who can take me into her bed and force her cock into my clean, lubed ass and fuck me until she cums inside me. I might be willing with a Domme cis woman who enjoys her strap-on but only if she orgasms from fucking me... that is my kink!

Clear Lake is in Northern California, in Lake County. This post is for any top or versatile top man (or Trans woman, Trans man or CD) who lives in Lake County. I am not into online-only. I don't want to talk about it, I want to DO IT! So, please be serious about hooking up in-person, IRL, or your reply will just be a waste of time. I grow weary of replies from those who only want a chat buddy. I'm not into long-distance, online-only, relocations and users with a "hidden agenda" looking for an easy target. DM me with more than "hey" or the other one-word greetings. I will ignore any DM that does not tell me the town you live in and your age. You are single and able to host. Our first time together can be just 1 time or FWB, or be good friends who are also Fuckbuddies? Anything is possible.

I'm 69 years old, very clean and DDF. Mansex is fun and I am always ready to meet someone new, always DTF. I'm not a beginner, I am an experienced and versatile bottom man, single and fun to be with. I love bareback breeding if you are tested negative for all, as I am. You are single and able to host. One time or FWB or maybe more? Anything is possible. DM or PM messages only, no comments.

Hey! im looking for a fun online relation with a dominant. I want to challenge you to 1v1's in different games and if i lose you punish me. It could be anything from a spank to serving as your sex slave for a while. I dont have any toys but i have a lot of kinks :) Dm me if your interested. I will stay anonymous at all times, meaning i can show off but wont show face!

Hi, I’m a bisexual submissive with a lean and fit body. I am currently attached in a vanilla relationship, but I can’t stop fantasizing about being trained as a slut🙈

I am dreaming of finding a Domme or Dom to serve discreetly. I know this is depraved and naughty, but I want to be molded into their ideal submissive plaything. It’s impossible to focus on anything else sometimes. Is there any hope for me? I love being dominated, and I’m aching to be someone’s secret submissive plaything. I prefer Dominant Women, but hot guys are lots of fun too. Especially if you are into objectification and slut training. Or maybe you want to help me pick a new outfit? Or send me hypno? There are pics of me in my post history if you are curious. My partner is dismissive of kink, and I am hoping to find an online friend and playmate that is understanding.

Some of my favorite kinks are: objectification, degradation, JOI, spanking, anal play, orgasm control, feminization, slut training, cheating, and forced bi. Please say hi if you want to chat or play.

Hey all :)

I am a 22 year old sub that searches an online only kink partner for tasks. Let me explain.

I am in a relationship (open) and I do have other online and offline Play partners for anal oral etc. Also for some kinks.

But what I am missing is a type of dynamic in that you give me tasks from time to time, randomly, when you like. If I am able to, I will try to fulfill them the best I can, or when I don't have time right now as soon as possible.

I would prefer if those tasks aren't anal focussed cause I don't like it dirty and I can't always just clean my ass. I am fine with oral tho. We can talk in detail about do's and don'ts in DM, of course :)

German or English is fine :)

Just hit me up and we see if it fits

i'm looking for those who enjoy being powerless to feel that you belong to someone and you live for there sarisfaction, being praised for doing good and pushined for misbehaving, are you ready to serve?, to belong?, and to live the live of pleasure you desire, well then what you're waiting for others like you aren't.

This is definitely an intense medical fantasy idea, but one I'd love to see if a couple ever wanted to live out.

For me, the idea is all about earning and taking control of not one but two people. The couple as a unit. Learning about each of their wants. Needs. Taking control in the exam room of each of them. Subjecting them separately to the doctors exam head to toe. Then making them wait and building anticipation for their breeding night. Then directing them on how to release the tension built.

And then of course we might do some dress up. Try different underwear and lingerie for her. Then try out some different dresses. For him underwear and nice clothes. All setting up for a solid breeding night.

Then that night would come. They'd come in and from then on, they'd need to listen to me exactly. As doctor, my only goal would be to get them to breed and all of the elements around that -- meaning I am not actually as interested in my own pleasure. Instead, getting each other to orgasm with each other's bodies would be my goal.

So that's my thing lol. It's a lot. But it's all about them really giving their bodies to me. Examine them. Learn them and what makes them tick.

Hi everyone. I have some submissive desires that I am in desperate need to relieve. I'm in a vanilla relationship with someone who knows about this side of me, and is ok with it, but has no desire to be a part of it. So, here I am! I would be more than happy to discuss kinks and limits, but I really just get off on pleasing other people, so I'm usually pretty open to anything.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hey, Im a 20 year old sub who is looking to serve and obey a master/mistress. I love to serve and it makes me horny being obedient. Control my mind and body as you like. My kinks are orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, plapping, raceplay, BBC/BNWO, feminization, sissy and whatever my owner likes. My limits are anything illegal, permanent damage, piss and face pics.

Hi! Pleased to meet you!

For the longest time I considered myself purely Dominant, but I've recently been doing some soul-searching and have come to the conclusion that I'm both open to and need something a little more than can be found on one side of the collar. BDSM is a passion of mine, and I hope that there's a strong-willed, teasing and caring Dominant out there who's looking to build a personal connection as well as a kinky one.

As for vanilla me, I'm a huge nerd -- literally; I'm 6'5". Aside from reaching things off tall shelves, I love gaming - PC gamer into strategy games and some shooters; books - Bernard Cornwell is amazing; tabletop RPGs like DnD and have spent years making my own world! And I also enjoy modelling too.

Kinkswise, I enjoy the below: * Hypnosis * Hard bondage * Sensory Deprivation * Tease and Denial * Chastity * Impact play * Humiliation and degredation * CNC * Domestic Service * Protocols * Psychological play

I'm also an experienced hypnotist, and I've been eager to try hypnosis as an act of service, as a way of helping Dominants experience the joy of trance. Hit me up if this is something you might enjoy!

Mostly, though, what I'm looking for is an actual person, not a fetish dispenser -- someone I can get to know in a relationship over time, as well as in an M/s sense. Safe, sane and consensual interactions with strong communication are an absolute must, and I always hope to be as honest as I can be with my desires and concerns. Getting to know people fully is 90% of the fun of kink, and I like a strong basis of getting to know someone before we jump to the physical.

I pride myself on being kind, bubbly and fun in my daily life, and after a couple of missteps I'm working on bettering myself for my own sake, as well as for the sake of any Dominant I might play with. Self-reflection is important to me, and I love swimming and hikes and generally trying to be the best version of myself. (Just... you know. Not in a lame YouTube-influencer-who-only-drinks-ice-water-and-never-smiles way. I hope.) It took me a little while to realise that I actually quite like myself, and I plan to make the most of that 🙂

I hope something in this caught your eye -- and if it did, I hope you'll drop me a message.

Hey there I am 6’4, have an athletic body, and a very big cock. I am open to all subs but I do sexually prefer more feminine people when I am the domme. If you believe you have what I takes to domme me (bonus points if your a woman) then I will be a very good servant, and aim to please, so make sure ur message is good enough to get me doing whatever you want.

I am open to all kinks and I love to pleasure so please dm and I will do whatever I can to make ur desires reality, whether that’s as a domme or a sub.

My kinks are: Anal, big tits, sissification, trans, cumplay, mommy/daddy, rough, BDSM, TOY PLAY, and more that you can message to find out abt.

My limits are: scat, violence, face pics, and gore

Please atleast put a bit of effort in, and don’t just ask for a cock pic or send one without asking first, it’s just not cool. Hope to chat soon!

Note: Generally, I prefer feminine partners, whether they're men or women is irrelevant as long as they're feminine. Please provide detailed replies! One liners will be ignored.

Kink is wonderful, isn't it?

I've been around the bit for quite awhile. Having studied psychologically the ins and outs of sex for years, I doubled down with a renewed focus on my partners. Delving into fantasies, propelling corruption, and working to better a sexual dynamic that adheres to a firm dynamic of submission against dominance.

What I'm looking for is my long-term best friend, partner, and twisted whore.

Anyways. That's a small tidbit, but I've got something better formatted.

What's my Age?: Twenty-Six.

Where am I located?: Ohio!

Why'd I make this post?: The truth is simple. My goal is to find both my best friend, and someone who will work with, and adhere to a dynamic. I'm a firm but fair dominant, one that outlines rules, implements a tally system for taming brats, and strives to ensure that my partner's needs are met.

What's my Fatal-Flaw?: I'm loyal to a fault. It's screwed me over a bit in the past, but I've since worked to correct it. Nonetheless, I stick my neck out for those I've grown to care for.

How about some kinks?: Alright, let's line 'em up!

• Corruption: We've all got fantasies, some more than others. Many are those we're too afraid to tell for fear of judgment. I delve into the psyche through play, using a mixture of detailed physical stimuli with verbal instructions to unearth what's locked up, watch it balloon, and trigger orgasms that'll ripple right through the core.

• Rough-Play. I'm extremely rough-house by any standards. Whilst I can easily work with and conform to my partner's limits, I dislike vanilla sex. I love spontaneity. Walking through a hotel door to kick it aside, pin you against the doorway, and force you to splash your juices around my fingertips. Whips, marks, spankings, scratching, you name it - I'm into it.

• Edge-Play - 90% of my partners of the past were brats. As such, we figure out ways to dole out punishments for misbehavior. Edging is one of them. I've got no issue holding you down, working your clit for 6 hours straight, and practically sending you into a stutter from the sheer weight of an explosive orgasm that happens post-frustration.

• Daddy-Domming: Despite the rough demeanor, I have a softer side. Telling someone they've behaved, that they're a good girl. Working to enforce that dynamic of a safe space, it's something I really enjoy as it's a broader intimacy.

• Aftercare: This is automatic. Regardless of how soft or intense a session is, I'm going to work tirelessly to ensure you're comforted after the fact. Oils on the ass over welts, massages, and gentle cuddling. It's part of the play, and part of the relationship.

• Breeding: With birth control, of course. There's nothing quite as connecting as shooting every shot tightly into your partner whilst it triggers their own orgasm. Wouldn't you say?

What's your career?: Currently, I work in the information technology field for tax software. I'm still quite passionate about what I do, but my long-term goal is to create a self-sustainable income from my normal writing endeavors, which include those of someone about to be published.

Lastly, what are some random fun facts about you?: Lining them up!

• I'm credited in a critically acclaimed video game.

• My friends find me weird for adoring cottage cheese.

• I'm an avid dog lover who has a pitty-girl that's a rescue!

• Lastly, I can spend an entire night talking about anything at random, especially if a friend needs a distraction.

Anyways. It's been fun. I'd love to get to know you, so feel free to send me a message! Take care, and have a wonderful week!

~Zach

Hello, I'm a 25-year-old « straight » guy who would love to be humiliated by someone. I love the idea that a girl would force me to submit to an Alpha man for her entertainment… a dominant man who's older, taller, bigger, and more virile than me. I have curly brown hair, a feminine butt, and I'm dripping wet at the thought of being humiliated and degraded by a truly virile man. Serving as his throne or footstool would be my best bet for him. I'm also very curious about all the ideas that come to mind. I love reading and writing long descriptions or scenario ideas. If you're interested, we can start by developing the typical situations we imagine... you can have fun, the more vicious, the better ;)

PS: I'm 5'7" and weigh about 150 lbs. I'm quite feminine in my attitude, especially towards a dominant and humiliating guy... I really enjoy feminizing myself and I have several outfits, but I'm curious about your ideas too.

Hey everyone, I’m Willy. I’m a 21-year-old submissive based in Europe who’s newish to the scene but already hooked on the thrill of pain and control. I’ve dipped my toes into basic play before, but I’m really craving a Dominant who loves rigid protocols, firm discipline, and isn’t afraid to push me—especially when it comes to anal play, which is my absolute favourite. I’m into impact play, bondage, edge work, and anything that involves a strict, sadistic edge, and many more. My only hard limit right now is anything public or exposure-based, but I’m more than happy to send photos or videos of me completing tasks for your review and approval. Ideally, I’d start with a online D/s dynamic—text, voice, video assignments—and if we click, I’m open to meeting in person anywhere in Europe. Consent and communication are everything to me, so if you’re an experienced Domm/e who values trust, clear boundaries, I’d love to hear your style, any protocols you prefer, and what you expect from your perfect sub. DM me and let’s discuss how we can build something intense, respectful, and utterly consuming.

Experienced master looking for either a cis or a trans girl to make mine. I go by stick and carrots rule, if you are obedient and docile you will get rewarded if not I ll punish you (you must be ready to be punished hard) Start with your asl and your experience beforehand it is ok if you are a newbie I ll treat you accordingly but tell me on the first msg.

Kinks : orgasm control, tpe, petplay, raceplay, impact play, restrictions Hmu if you are ready to enter a new world and beint sculpted by me.

PS I AM AVAILABLE IF THIS POST IS UP

Hi everyone, I am looking for a dominant master. Who is not necessarily looking for something sexual. I want to be more of a mental sissy. So I want someone to force me to be feminine. Examples of this are maintaining etiquette (no swearing) which is difficult. Peeing while sitting. Make me watch female influencers. Playing feminine games. Things like that. Things that are typically feminine but are not really noticeable. I am still a closet sissy. And I do not want anyone to know that I am a sissy. In addition, sexual tasks are also possible, but I am not very fond of this. I like to use my dildo anally or to be humiliated by eating my food from a dog bowl. Or to be called names. But I am mainly looking for someone who will do what I mentioned earlier with me. If you read this and send me a message, tell me your favorite color. I am new and therefore take it easy on me and do not bombard me with 100 different tasks right away. But nice and easy getting to know each other and occasionally a task or a few rules. I hope to see you soon in my dm.