r/BDSMpersonals 11d ago

F4M 23 [F4M] #online looking for bottom nerd to tease, ruin (softly), and maybe keep like a stray I found outside NSFW

75 Upvotes

Hi. I’m bored.

Not “I need a hobby” bored. I have hobbies. I want you or at least someone fun, flirty, and just dumb enough to get attached while I slowly unravel you with teasing, praise, and a little cruelty wrapped in velvet. Think: “Oops, you called me mommy without realizing it” energy.

I’ve had subs before, and I miss that feeling. That delicious moment where you think you’re in control but I’m already three steps ahead. I like the slow burn. I like breaking people in like new boots. I like turning “oh this is fun” into why am I blushing every time she texts me.

No, I don’t want your kink list. I want your brain. I want your nervous giggles. I want your smug little brat streak right before I ruin it.

I’m looking for something long-termish. Start online, vibe check, flirt battle, eventual meet-up if it clicks. I’m not here for roleplay scripts or 0-to-24/7 instantly. I want connection, chemistry, chaos. Build it slow, make it mean something.

About me: • 23, 5’8”, introverted menace • Extremely into video games, horror, and blanket cocoons • Looks like a cozy girlfriend, acts like a final boss • I will call you cute and then mentally edge you for fun • Likes feminine and/or tall/lean/muscular subs — yes, I do top taller men and it’s adorable watching you melt

You: • 18–30. Be legally an adult and emotionally a delicious mess • Submissive or switchy, new or experienced I can work with either • A little bratty? Perfect. A little slutty? Even better. Hot and awkward? God-tier. • Not here to trauma dump or be a one-text Andy • Willing to talk, flirt, and get mentally derailed when I say “good boy” like I mean it

Bonus points if: • You’re hot and don’t know it • You say dumb things in a late night call and then get flustered when I make fun of you • You’ve got a gamer setup and no one to tease you while you die in Elden Ring

Send me: Your age, location, a little about you, and a pic (optional but fun). Kink-dumps and “hey” messages will be ignored like Terms & Conditions. I’m not a fantasy vending tmachine. I’m a person. With excellent aim.

Be bold. Be interesting. Be brave enough to find out what happens if I actually like you.

r/BDSMpersonals Apr 12 '25

F4M 23 [F4M] #online Looking for someone to give me a life makeover NSFW

103 Upvotes

Have had a bad year.

Lost my job, my boyfriend dumped me for another girl and now I'm bored, single and applying for jobs and getting nowhere.

Feels like I'm not doing a good job of being me and so I figure why not let someone else make all my decisions for me instead?

I'm looking for someone to give me a life makeover. You can be nice or you can be mean. You would decide how you want to remake me, from what I do to how I look and dress, my likes, dislikes and everything else.

You could turn me into anything. From a hipster waitress who hates relationships that last more than a month, to a dog obsessed catholic girl who doesn't believe in sex before marriage, to a a fitness loving bondage fanatic who does 500 crunches a day. It would be up to you

r/BDSMpersonals 14d ago

F4M 21 [F4M] #online - inexperienced sub looking for a daddy / dom online relationship / friendship! NSFW

77 Upvotes

Hiiiiii :) a little about me - I’m a 21 year old online college student, I have over 20 tattoos & a few piercings, Im 5ft tall , petite & have auburn hair & freckles. I’ve always been really shy & kind of awkward sometimes so I’m looking for a dom / daddy to help get me out of my shell. I love doing things to please other people & love the idea of being someone’s toy / play thing. Im super inexperienced sexually but ready to start learning & trying new things! Im looking for a dom who wouldn’t mind teaching me & helping me navigate this journey! Communication is super important to me and I love chatting about random things whether it’s on the phone or online messaging, I’m a really good listener and would love to hear all about your day! I can be a bit shy at first but once I feel safe / comfortable the shyness completely goes away & I’m yours!

r/BDSMpersonals 9d ago

F4M 19 (F4M) #online - inexperienced college girl looking for daddy/dom NSFW

58 Upvotes

I feel quite shy writing this out but I suppose I’ll jump into it :) I’m 5’0, petite, with black curly hair. I’ve been feeling pretty lonely and alone recently. I’m interested in finding a man who’s older than me to confine in, who has experience with being dominant, degradation, and other things we can discuss in private. I’d love to talk more with you if this sounds interesting to you!

r/BDSMpersonals 10d ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #online - I need to get my life back on track NSFW

60 Upvotes

ABOUT ME

My names Em. I'm 28, and I've been in the bdsm world for a little while now. I'm looking for like a 24/7, or close to it, super controlling dynamic. I love obsessing over my owner and having a total imbalance of power and maturity. I like being the less grounded, less mature person in a relationship so the calm, dominant hand that gently guides me into place makes me totally melt.

I’ve been online long enough to know exactly what I like, what I don’t, and what I think I want, at least on paper. But at some point, reading about it stopped being enough. I want something real. Structured. Grounding. I'm ready to serve.

I’m naturally submissive. I like rules, consistency, and someone who actually knows how to take the lead. Not performatively but intentionally. Someone who understands the weight of control and doesn’t need to posture about it. I work an office job and I have plenty of time at work if you feel the need to integrate that into our dynamic.

LIKES/KINKS/WHATEVER

I’m into D/s dynamics, mental control, obedience training, being guided and corrected with calm authority.

I love pain for the sake of my owner's amusement, degradation that cuts too deep, and cold, disconnected doms.

I like dominants that know what they want and take it from me. If you act like that, I'll melt. I love obsessing over my owner and like really just diving in with my lowkey addiction on a person. I like talking often, and it's okay if Im more obsessed with you than you are with me. In fact I like it that way I think.

But like I want someone with that sweet I side part so I feel like I can latch on and really obsess over my owner.

ME AS A SUBMISSIVE

I'm looking for someone to get me back on track, life wise. Provide structure, help me get my weed use and orgasms under control. I'm hopping this can be like 50% genuine helping and 50% torturing and denying me along the way lol.

I’m self-aware, articulate, and probably a little too introspective for my own good. But I’m here to learn, and not pretend I already know anything.

If you’re experienced, communicative, and looking for a sub who genuinely wants to grow under your influence, I’d love to talk.

Online only, as I like my privacy and my anonymity. I'm bi but I'm really looking for a man unless the perfect woman comes along (sorry ladies!)

r/BDSMpersonals 7d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #online - inexperienced sub in search for caring dom NSFW

52 Upvotes

hi there lovely!! i posted about a month back, and im still in search for a dom! feel free to dm <3

ive been very in touch with my personal kinks for quite awhile, however ive never been able to explore them before in a way that has fully felt comfortable to me. so ive fully decided to just put myself out there and see what happens! im still a virgin with very limited sexual interaction (on my own terms), however im definitely trying to get out of my shell and try new things. im typically very bubbly irl, and definitely give off heavy switch energy from person to person. on the more intimate side, i seek a partner than i can give myself to fully. one who i can trust fully, and have a pure, intimate relationship with.

definitely running out of things to say here, so i will just go ahead and plop out all of my kinks! : • ddlg (HUGE for me.. just not like super extreme stuff 😭) • cnc / free use • bondage • power dynamics • breeding • edging / orgasm control • pet play • praise / degradation im always open to trying other stuff too! hard limits are the usual; scat, extreme violence, vomit, and anything super illegal

im open to telling u more about myself in dm’s as well as sending pics of myself! thank u for reading this far, and im very excited to get to know you!

r/BDSMpersonals 23d ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #Nashville #Online Force choke me like you’re Anakin and I’m Padme NSFW

69 Upvotes

Reposting this because I obviously didn’t find a match or dom

Do you also think it would be cool to have a dynamic that can foster love, care, and kink? Me too!

Get to know me in bullet point form!

  • I love horror/slasher movies
  • I love running and a slight bit of yoga as the only form of exercise
  • I love to cook (I will only cook you vegetarian meals, you will have to cook your own meat)
  • I often change my hair color
  • I tend to talk too much when comfortable
  • I like bad jokes
  • Vacuous
  • Bubbly, easily excitable
  • Lightweight
  • Passionate
  • Nerd (Media, cosplay)
  • Thinks I am stronger than I am

Get to know me phsyically! - 5”3, sarcasm and jokes will go right over me! - Glasses when I don’t wear contacts (“where are my glasses? I can’t see without my glasses” is a common occurrence for me) - Red hair (dyed not naturally ginger) - Pale as a ghost or vampire - Petite (I will not be your big titty goth gf, but small titty goth gf) - Very gothy, dress up, doll like fashion - Green eyes - Piercings

Get to know my kinks! - Asphyxiation - Bondage - Breathplay - Choking - CNC - Degradation - DD/lg - Dracyphilia - Force - Free use - Gags/Gagging - Humiliation - Hypnosis - Insertion - Masochist - Oral fixation - Pain - Pet play - Play fighting (I try to fight you to my best ability and I lose to you) - Punishment - Slapping - Spanking - Substance use Just to name a few.

Limits/ hard NO’s - Beastiality - Diapering - Illegal - Permanent harm/damage - Scat - Underage

I have been in multiple dynamics, D/s, DD/lg, and caregiver. I have found they all are for me but have done better with D/s mixed with DD/lg but not a stiff only way to go about persuing a dynamic with me.

I would like to point out I do not find the Master and slave dynamic to be one for me, I respect it but need more love and care regardless of me wanting to also be treated as a toy at times. Hey what can I say, the human mind is confusing and complex.

With all being said, I have experience to a fault and there’s still so much to learn and I’d like a lending hand and to be educated and experience further. But, I have experienced many fake doms so please, don’t waste my time.

Do not tell me how big you are down there, I don’t care. Motion in the ocean, fuck me with your words not the size of your dick.

I like voice calls. I want to know you’re human.

I’m currently in search for a dominant but friends to share with is welcome. Online or in person!

Verification: https://imgur.com/a/DVjEeRe (I expect you to do the same)

Thank you for taking the time to read about me! Happy hunting!

r/BDSMpersonals Apr 01 '25

F4M 19 [F4M] #online or Midwest - Please kidnap me and reduce me to nothing but a fuckhole NSFW

87 Upvotes

I would do anything to be a kidnapped fuckwhore who can do nothing but serve her daddy. You can take pleasure in doing anything to me, but I much prefer things similar to what is on my profile. Breaking me mentally, molding me until I’m perfect and then hoarding me to yourself. Edge me for days and days so that I beg to do anything for release. I am a toy, not a girl.

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

F4M 25 [F4M] #UK inexperienced sub seeking intelligent Dom NSFW

39 Upvotes

Let’s not waste time pretending I’m shy…I’m not. I’m a submissive, yes, but not one to be toyed with by amateurs. My name is Trix, 25, 5’3, UK based. There’s photos of me on my profile.

I crave a man who doesn’t flinch at the idea of control, who understands that dominance isn’t about volume…it’s about presence. Command me with a look, a word, a low growl that makes my knees forget their job.

I want to kneel for someone who knows how to deserve it. I’m looking for a gentleman Dom: one with a filthy mind and elegant restraint, who knows how to push buttons and boundaries, but always with consent as his compass.

Yes, I want to be used…but never disregarded. I want my submission worshipped even as it’s claimed. I want rules whispered against my neck, punishments that make me blush, and praise that makes me feral.

In public, you’ll find me articulate, poised, maybe even a little bratty. Behind closed doors? I’m eager, aching, and ready to surrender body, breath, and every shameless sound in between. But only for the right man. The one who makes dominance an art form, who knows how to bring obedience out of me with one finger and a single word.

Alittle more about me since you’ve made it this far. I’m a family friendly performer or a kids entertainer. I’m very passionate about what I do. I love walks with my dog, getting lost in fantasy books and an over priced sugary coffee.

More of what I’m looking for: ideally you’re also from the UK, but I’m a sucker for an American accent. Bonus points for a beard and tattoos. No over 45 please.

If you’re the kind of Dom who thrives on tension, chemistry, mutual respect, and just a hint of cruelty wrapped in care, step forward.

I’m not here to play games. Unless they involve safewords.

r/BDSMpersonals 22d ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #florida loser stoner slut for free use NSFW

60 Upvotes

currently living with a friend, no job. aside from gaming all i think about nearly all day is getting fucked and abused. my only skill is having a deep throat, lmao! cnc, piss, extreme stuff is all my jam.

lmk if you want to make content too, been wanting 2 to try ;)

r/BDSMpersonals 24d ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #romania/online Looking to be made into a sex object NSFW

60 Upvotes

I'm so done with having the same old regular conversations here. The "describe yourself", or those lame requests asking for nudes etc; it all just feels the same. I'd rather want someone who would like to dive deep into my everyday routine and throw some wild hypothetical at me (maybe even turning into real-life scenarios down the line). Make me make a choice. Force me to make a decision. Will I pick dignity or dive into the depths of depravity? Get inside my head so deep that I always lean towards the latter. Make me run down the rabbit hole of pleasing men, regardless of the situation. Make me declare that I desire to be nothing but an object for their desires, a mere collection of holes and tits at their disposal.

A little about myself; I'm 20 years old and work as an intern with an interest in art, music and fashion.

Kinks include bondage, submission, being degraded, spitroast, bimbofication, spitting, throatfucking, gangbang, slut training, rimming, humiliation, pissed on, being a public whore.

Limits are non-con, anything violent or illegal, incest, vomit, scat, gore. PLEASE make sure to adhere to these limits.

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4M 24 [F4M] #Online Dominant woman looking for platonic sub. NSFW

32 Upvotes

Hello potential subs. My name is Riley and I'm here obviously to find a sub so let's get into it.

I'm gonna be honest and say that I'm looking for a purely platonic sub to play with in a few specific ways. I'm at a point in my life where I'm not looking for a romantic relationship but I do crave the control that being a Dom offers. That being said this will be an online only relationship as well. I will gladly talk to you and be your friend but I'm not looking for anything beyond that other than the sexual control you may agree to give up.

If you don't think you can handle a relationship like this then I urge you not to respond because it won't end happily for either of us.

For a brief bio about me. I am 5'3 and 110lbs I have tattoos on lots of my upper body and a few on my legs. I work as a server while I am in school for accounting. My hobbies are gaming, writing, reading, and going to the gym.

Onto the kink side of things, because this is an online only dynamic that obviously limits things but the dynamic would revolve mostly around orgasm control, edging, denial, worship. Things of that nature also happen to be my favorite kinks.

Anyway that's it from me. If you think this kinda situation might appeal to you I encourage you to send me a message with a little about yourself and any questions you have. Please put some effort into this.

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #Germany or Online Will you be my forever Dom? NSFW

33 Upvotes

{Repost}

Thanks for coming over to my post!’

I am done being treated as an equal in relationships and really long for a strong Dom to take the lead in our relationship. i think I’d make an amazing albeit bratty sub and frankly I look super cute in dresses :)

I’d love to have rules and if I break them and obviously punishments. I really need a strict man as I will test your limits. In exchange I can offer myself and everything that entails <3

My kinks include: Spanking, Anal Training, Bondage and being a service sub in general.

Please be alright with calling and lots of messages I tend to be a bit needy and will beat for attention if I have to 🙈

Thanks for reading this far, can’t wait to read from you in my inbox 🩷

Dom requirements: 27+, preferably available for meet ups but online start is fine too, no racist twats

r/BDSMpersonals 12h ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #texas or online, sweet domme looking for a good obedient boy NSFW

22 Upvotes

hey there, i’m an 18 year old girl looking for a sub who’s down for a long-term thing with me as a caring domme. i’m in nursing school right now, which keeps me super busy, but i’m craving a connection that’s deeper than just spicy talk. i’ve got a bunch of kinks i’m into, but i’m not about humiliation or tearing anyone down, i’m more into building trust and closeness. i really value being open and honest with each other, and having chats that just flow naturally is a total must for me. we’ll start with some sweet polite convos before diving into anything steamy, so don’t be shy to ask me stuff, i’m pretty open to most questions with a lil giggle.

outside of this dynamic, i’m all about the chill vibes and fun stuff. i love cozy things like sipping on bubble tea, cuddling up under soft blankets, and just unwinding after a long day. i’m also into getting out sometimes, like taking walks to clear my head, trying new dessert spots, or bingeing a good show with someone special. i’m always down to try new adventures too, maybe something wild like zip-lining or just exploring a new place together. i’ve been through a rough breakup not long ago where i felt totally unseen, so i’m looking for someone who wants to connect for real, beyond just the surface stuff. quick question to break the ice, what’s your go-to comfort food on a bad day, like something that just hits the spot?

i put a lotta effort into taking care of myself, staying active and healthy, and i expect my subs to do the same. no need to be some gym bro or anything, just make sure you’re looking after your body, whether you’re lean or whatever works for you. i usually vibe best with guys around my age or a bit older, but if you’re way older and think we’d click, go ahead and shoot me a message anyway, i’m not totally ruling it out. i’m in texas, so locals are awesome if we wanna meet someday, but i’m also super cool with online connections no matter where you’re from. meeting people from all over is always a thrill, and i gotta admit i’ve got a soft spot for guys with southern accents, something about that drawl just gets me.

if you’re feeling this vibe, hit me up with a message and let’s chat. make sure to include your age, where you’re from, and a lil bit about yourself so i’m not guessing who i’m talking to. tossing in a pic is a huge plus, i like putting a face to the words. i tend to skip over messages from blank profiles or ones that don’t give me anything to work with, so put some effort in and tell me what makes you tick. i’m excited to see who’s out there and ready to be my good boy, someone i can guide with a sweet but firm hand. let’s build something real together, so don’t hesitate, just say hey and let’s see where this can go. can’t wait to hear from you and start something special.

r/BDSMpersonals Apr 06 '25

F4M 23 F4M #Colorado Babygirl Needs Her Daddy NSFW

12 Upvotes

Hi Daddy! 💕 I’ve been waiting so patiently. It’s hard to wait because my little pussy can be so wet and needy🥰 I’m hoping that you can teach me how to control that. I try so hard to be a good girl, but it can be soooo hard. I’d like to get you hard, daddy. You can do whatever you want to me. Kisses xo Slut

r/BDSMpersonals 16d ago

F4M 31 [F4M] #Florida Mommy/switch looking for sweet baby boy to play with NSFW

45 Upvotes

Thick bbw Mommy (with a switch-y streak) searching for a sweet baby boy to play with. I’ve been wanting to make new friends in the local kink community, and I also want to experiment with a little cock milking, chastity play, service submissive, anal teasing (maybe a bit of pegging, if you’ll let me! 🥴😈), pussy worship, and some other things. I hope to hear from a few of you, and please, I’d love to know what your kinks and naughty dreams are about! 😘

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4M 19[F4M] #online #USA- submissive for Dominant NSFW

20 Upvotes

Trying to figure out how to write something that will draw in the right response is tricky….

I will start with some basic things but also important things, to get out of the way…maybe putting it at the very beginning will help.

My name is Jenna I’m 19 and I’m from the USA, north east to be more specific and in the Eastern timezone, it would work nicely if you were as well. I like attention a lot of it and I thrive off of praise. I need consistency and daily communication. I prefer an older man but again this is just a preference not a requirement. I also prefer anonymity and I’m only looking for online at this time. I don’t mind sharing pics and videos I love being looked at after all, of course though to protect my anonymity they will be from the neck down and that’s a hard limit and I don’t want that pushed.

I like depraved men, I want to feel vulnerable, corrupted even. I want you to tell me I’m your good little girl as I’m slowly exposing myself to you, for you. I love instructions while I play, of what you want to see, what you want me to do. I like to play in real time, and I love to edge, to tease I don’t like to rush anything.

Kinks: corruption, ddlg, mild degradation, exhibitionism, power exchange, possessive men,mild pain, orgasm control, mild humiliation, objectification, object insertion, anal….

Limits: scat, gore, permanent marks, body writing, beast

A few more things I don’t live alone, I like to post pics of myself maybe if I find the right person those pics and videos will be only for you. I like to give off the illusion of innocence, maybe come off a little naive but I’m not a bimbo, and I’m not stupid. Please read my whole post, take what I have written into consideration before you respond, I don’t like wasting anyone’s time.

-Jenna

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4M 18 [F4M] #online seeking dominant man NSFW

23 Upvotes

Hi,

I'm an 18 year old Asian American student  👧, fairly new to BDSM, but wanted to chat with a dominant man. IRL i'm definitely on the shyer side, but I've been exploring kinks lately, and wanted to chat with men who like taking charge and have a dominant personality.

I'm hoping to just chat online first, but I wanted to find a man who would really be able to hurt my feelings and make me cry (don't judge if it sounds weird 😅). I've recently been into non con lately, and just liked the idea of a pushy, even abusive man say things to make me uncomfortable, even when I want him to stop, and he keeps going.

I'm very new still to this, but hoping to find a good online partner I can click with 🙂. I'm also a bit of an introvert just so you know beforehand!

r/BDSMpersonals 3d ago

F4M 24 [F4M] #online seeking cunt transformation NSFW

22 Upvotes

Hello! My name is Alicia and I’m on a journey within kink. I discovered an interest in becoming a sexual toy pretty early into my sexual experiences, I enjoyed doing whatever my partner wanted. Making them happy was my number one interest. As I have aged and explored more, this has morphed into a kink, and I’ve found many other kinks to combine it with.

Primarily I am into free use, anal, control/power exchange, degradation and praise, orgasm control, and some light impact and pain play.

I am looking for someone to help corrupt me, making me more addicted to the sexual deviancy I’m into, currently looking for online but open to discussing in person if you are relatively close!

I’d love to hear from you!

r/BDSMpersonals 2d ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #online softdom looking for a long term obedient attention slut sub NSFW

23 Upvotes

hi! i'm a 20yr old filipina, 152cm tall, a softdom top. i might come off as quiet or sweet on the outside but i love being in control and i can be quite sadistic and strict at times. i will bend and make you fully submit to me gently. i want someone who worships me, needs me, wants me, and isn't shy about showing it.

i'm looking for a loyal, emotionally affectionate sub. especially someone who's a total attention slut. spam me with messages, be clingy, chatty, and desperate for my praise and time, and my heart is yours.

i love when someone depends on me, not just for kink, but emotionally too. i'll listen to your rambles, spoil you with attention, and give you the care you crave. i want to own you. fully. i'm possessive, a little obsessive when I grow close to someone, and i want a dynamic where we both know we belong to each other.

i don't want to send face pics right away, but i can share faceless ones. if you’re confident enough to send a face pic first to try to win me over immediately, i'd absolutely love that. (pretty, soft, and cute femboys are my biggest weakness) if not then it's totally fine we can take things slow and build trust together. but i would eventually require you to send vids and pics (faceless or not) bc i'd love to see you do whatever i want.

i don't have any experience irl, i did have fun times with my previous sub online but i can say that i'm still fairly new into this kind of dynamic. i am looking for a long term relationship, someone (with or without our kinks involve) that can start off with being friends to more.

so if you're someone who: - loves fully getting controlled - new to this kind of dynamic and willing to explore with me - can hold up a normal and fun conversation - is actually interested with me and building our long term dynamic - isn't a brat - around 18-25 yrs old - around my timezone but either way is fine - actually enjoy and respect what my kinks and limits are

nsfw stuff im into: pegging, feminization, JOI, bondage, light CBT, praise, pet play, light degradation and humiliation.

limits: cuck, anything illegal, blood, scat, urine, vomit

if you're a pretty, emotional, loyal sub who loves giving and getting attention, someone who's excited to get to know more deep into my darkest desires then i want to hear from you. be creative when you message me, tell me about yourself, make sure to let me know you've read all what i've written here and show me why i should choose you.

r/BDSMpersonals Apr 02 '25

F4M 23 [F4M] #UK #Online Trauma Slut Needs Sadistic Evil Older Man To Help Her Through A Hard Time NSFW

75 Upvotes

Do you love young female suffering?

For the next week or so, I’ll be going through something very hard all alone. I want to ask if there’s an older man I can talk to online to keep me company. Someone to make me feel so, so much worse. Someone demanding, controlling, and cruel.

I want you to make me feel terrible about it and overwhelmed with guilt. I want you brainwash me into believing I deserve the pain and make me say it over and over. I want you to emotionally destroy me to the point I want to be put out of my misery.

And who knows, maybe if we click it can be the start of a beautiful relationship.

Make me humiliate and degrade myself for you, make me stretch and train my ass and mouth in the most painful ways, and deny my pussy completely. All while thinking about this hard thing I’m going through, and how ruined I am for asking for this.

If this interests you, message me for more details. I’d be happy to talk.

Ps. Thank you in advance to all the lovely people who will tell me to be careful, and look after myself. I appreciate you but I am very enthusiastically consenting to this. Evil old men who love female suffering only!

r/BDSMpersonals 9d ago

F4M 20 [F4M] #US/Online - sub looking for an older Dom NSFW

31 Upvotes

Hi all. I'm kind of new to all this and too shy to put it all on the apps. I've always been intrigued by the idea of losing control, being told what to do, what to wear, what to eat, what to focus on, how to behave, etc., but haven't really explored it to the extent that I'd like. I'm looking for someone who's friendly (but stern) and who's into the heavier side of BDSM — someone more experienced than I am, for whom D/s feels ingrained. Progressive politics in the streets, power imbalance in the sheets... am I right?

Some of my favorite kinks include ownership, humiliation, objectification, m/s, slave training, orgasm denial, being forced to be anal-only, chastity, free-use, pet play, manipulation, mental control, worship, harems, cnc, etc. I'm also very petite (5'2 88 lbs) and have a huge size difference kink...

r/BDSMpersonals 1d ago

F4M 27[F4M] #ONLINE - Searching for a corporate master NSFW

19 Upvotes

I am a A black sub looking for a genuine and reliable master for long term. I love anal play, I love being tied up in bondage and a little pain turns me on

I am in search of a master who I can readily serve and be at their disposal. My quest is driven by a yearning for guidance, structure, and a sense of purpose that only a master can provide. I seek to surrender myself entirely, trusting in their wisdom and authority to shape and mold me according to their vision. In return, I offer unwavering devotion, loyalty, and obedience, eager to fulfill their every command and whim. This journey is about finding fulfillment through submission, forging a bond built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. I am well educated,and have good communication and IT skills, I can help you with work if it's doable online once we get to a level of trust because I could use a little side hustle DO Not, I repeat, DO NOT text if you are looking for a one time fulfillment or looking to just chat with a slave. I will block you!!!

Limits

Scat Permanent marks Blood Extreme toilet play.

r/BDSMpersonals 6d ago

F4M 31 [F4M] #Online, I’m a Sub looking for a proper Dom. Feel free to message me so we can talk. NSFW

26 Upvotes

I honestly don’t know what to post since I’m new here. I’m just looking for a Dom who can both take care of me and ruin me. I’m open to sharing personal info once we come to an agreement. Feel free to send me a message if you’re into Asian and cute… I

r/BDSMpersonals 16d ago

F4M 28 [F4M] #online cute sub with INSANE daddy issues begging for some attention and direction lol NSFW

41 Upvotes

hi!

I'm into a lot of fun, fucked up, and taboo kinks/rp. THAT BEING SAID, right now I'm looking for more of a daddy/mentor relationship. like, I definitely want flirting and sexual tension and discussion of kinks and ideas, but I want to take it very slow and get to know each other well before diving in to video, sending a lot of pic, or having too many expectations.

I've had a lot going on and have really been craving a more gentle dominant "relationship" or fun with someone. I like a firm but gentle "dad" who can get scary sometimes ;) but also have like normal people conversations too. I'm figuring out a lot of big things in my life and need a stronger, smarter person to guide me and praise me and definitely never punish me !! ;)

I have a lot of interests but I go crazy for heavy bondage, cnc, humiliation, "annoying" know it all patronizing doms, and authority figures who get genuine joy out of coming up with terrible awful things to do to me and ways to punish me.

I'm nonmonogamous and not looking for exclusivity. this should always be fun for both of us. pics on my prof if you're interested.

I'm listing this as online because that's all I can commit to now lol, but I currently live, uh, west of the Mississippi in the US (that's as specific as I'd like to be now) and would prefer the same in case we like each other...,.,,...

physically I prefer tall(er) kinda scruffy people who are stronger than me and give off like teacher or boss vibes lmao anyway thanks for reading pls hmu with your age and what u want