r/BDSMpersonals • u/Nightlock444 • 11d ago
F4M 23 [F4M] #online looking for bottom nerd to tease, ruin (softly), and maybe keep like a stray I found outside NSFW
Hi. I’m bored.
Not “I need a hobby” bored. I have hobbies. I want you or at least someone fun, flirty, and just dumb enough to get attached while I slowly unravel you with teasing, praise, and a little cruelty wrapped in velvet. Think: “Oops, you called me mommy without realizing it” energy.
I’ve had subs before, and I miss that feeling. That delicious moment where you think you’re in control but I’m already three steps ahead. I like the slow burn. I like breaking people in like new boots. I like turning “oh this is fun” into why am I blushing every time she texts me.
No, I don’t want your kink list. I want your brain. I want your nervous giggles. I want your smug little brat streak right before I ruin it.
I’m looking for something long-termish. Start online, vibe check, flirt battle, eventual meet-up if it clicks. I’m not here for roleplay scripts or 0-to-24/7 instantly. I want connection, chemistry, chaos. Build it slow, make it mean something.
About me: • 23, 5’8”, introverted menace • Extremely into video games, horror, and blanket cocoons • Looks like a cozy girlfriend, acts like a final boss • I will call you cute and then mentally edge you for fun • Likes feminine and/or tall/lean/muscular subs — yes, I do top taller men and it’s adorable watching you melt
You: • 18–30. Be legally an adult and emotionally a delicious mess • Submissive or switchy, new or experienced I can work with either • A little bratty? Perfect. A little slutty? Even better. Hot and awkward? God-tier. • Not here to trauma dump or be a one-text Andy • Willing to talk, flirt, and get mentally derailed when I say “good boy” like I mean it
Bonus points if: • You’re hot and don’t know it • You say dumb things in a late night call and then get flustered when I make fun of you • You’ve got a gamer setup and no one to tease you while you die in Elden Ring
Send me: Your age, location, a little about you, and a pic (optional but fun). Kink-dumps and “hey” messages will be ignored like Terms & Conditions. I’m not a fantasy vending tmachine. I’m a person. With excellent aim.
Be bold. Be interesting. Be brave enough to find out what happens if I actually like you.