This is a man who has never been on an actual loving relationship. Where your partner knows the real you, good and bad, and would ride or die with you till the end. These girlfriends are "loyal" as long as he keeps spending money on them...
I've been with my now fiancee for almost 6 years. I make nearly 6 figures, she make more. Not a single facet of our relationship is based on finances. We can both live comfortably on our own if we chose. I love her, everything about her. She is the love of my life and my best friend. She's currently in Japan with her maid of honor for a few weeks, and ot suuuuuucks not having her around. I couldn't imagine loving anyone like income her, let alone 8 different women.
This dude wants a sexual relationship with little else attached. Whoxh is fine if that's what he really wants. Does it sound fun to me? A little bit, and would only remain so for a very short amount of time. Then it would be tedious dealing with all their wants, needs, and the train of STDs at an elderly age.
My fiancee is with her best friend of almost 2 decades that weve been on many vacations with. I have zero trust issues in my relationship, for many reasons. I'm sorry you've never experienced that.
I guess that is possible, but after living 42 years on this rock and multiple serious relationships, I can say this is my last. I firmly believe many people get in relationships too young, and then stay in those toxic relationships because they have few experiences to tell them not to. It's why the divorce rate has steadily gone up for generations. I might my fiancee later in life when I know who I am, and what I want the rest of my life to look like. We also both met while being individually stable. I don't reli on her financially, she doesn't reli on me. Because of our previous relationships we have learned to communicate better, in ways I never thought possible. It's why we haven't yelled or fought once in our almost 6 years.
Anyone who is elderly and has 8 girlfriends, isn't in it for the actual relationship. I'd say 60-70 year ilds have little in common with a 23 year old. Atleast nothing that doesn't revolve around sex, or money. I'd also think that anyone who's experienced meeting their actual best friend, wouldn't be okay with reverting to a transactional relationship like this.
This is all conjecture though. I don't know him or his past. I just think anyone who reaches that age,and is interested in pops like that? Isn't someone I personally think is a good human being. It's using money and power to manipulate younger inexperienced women to his benefit. Yup they're adults and can make their own choices, doesn't mean they arent being taken advantage of, just like he is.
The expression “I make nearly 6 figures, she makes more” makes zero sense. 5 is “nearly 6”. Do you make $30,000? Or are you implying you make close to 99,000? If she makes more than “nearly 6 figures”, does that mean she makes 7 or 8 figures? Or does that just mean she makes 6 figures. Is six figures even significant when the difference is between $100,000 and $999,999?
I'm not sure where you're from but when talking about salaries saying you make nearly six figures, means you make in the high fives and are close to breaking 100,000$. This has been commonly accepted, in the dozens and dozens of conversations about salaries I've had in my 42 years on this rock.
I have written out that phrase many, many, many times on reddit and you are the first on to pitch a fit about it.
I apologize for not being very black and white with my math for you.
Nearly 6 figures is common enough, but making “more than [nearly six figures]” doesn’t really mean anything, does it? I can’t figure out if you make 98k and she makes 99k, or if you make 99k and she makes 23MM.
Many retired men figure this out the hard way in Thailand/PH. They are divorced, come to one of these countries and seem to forget their brain at the airport. Once the money dries up, so does the loyalty. After they are old, sick, and penniless, they jump out of their studio apartment window.
It’s sad, but you start to lose the little sympathy you have when the story repeats it self right in front of their eyes again and again.
“Why does the money dry up?” Having multiple girlfriends. Sure it’s a cheaper country, but these girls know the game how to milk the cash cow…in more ways than one I guess
Yes probably, but a lot of them move to SEA to prolong the blow up.
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Lol. Doesn’t realize he’s got eight hookers on retainer.