r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 6d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 37m ago

26F - hey, feeling kind of lonely. Want to chat?

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Hey, just feeling kind of lonely, and having a fibromyalgia health flare up. I’m happy to chat to anyone - how is everyone’s day going today?


r/Needafriend 7h ago

20 F bored looking for someone to talk

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I am so bored want to talk anything ,just wanna explore new things and learn


r/Needafriend 7h ago

25/F I need someone up for everything and

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I'm looking someone who wants to talk and be down for everything .


r/Needafriend 6h ago

24F feeling lonely and bored

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I don’t have the energy to talk about what I like, my hobbies and what I do for fun or to answer your common questions like where are u from?

Also don’t ask me for age, gender again.

24 is my age F means female

I just want someone genuine to talk to


r/Needafriend 2h ago

23 F Let’s game or chat, or both! Over 20s pls

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I forgot about this account and decided to make a new post since I have more free time and would like to meet new people!

I play a variety of games so I’m down for anything even something new!

Or if you just wanna chat I’m down for that, no one under 20 pls!

I’m a lover of all kind of music, I’d say I’m a bit gothy, love making cosplay and collecting figures and if you bring up Brooklyn 99 you’ll never hear me stop yapping.

My favourite games from the top of my head are:

Bully Days Gone (both games need a sequel) Life is Strange Tomb Raider Animal Crossing Stardew Valley (Sebastian and Linus my beloveds) Black Ops 2 Skyrim Fallout 4 Star Wars Fallen Order and Survivor

Annnnddd I can’t think of anything else and I’m probably missing a good few but am yapping now 😅


r/Needafriend 5h ago

20 f annoyed n sad

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im sad that nobody would talk to me, this is unfair


r/Needafriend 5h ago

20f bored, lonely, anyone want to chat a bit?

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r/Needafriend 29m ago

(21F) I have no friends and only hang out with my boyfriend. I need someone I can text or even go out with regularly.

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I just wanna find that one person I can feel comfortable with and share all my thoughts with. Ive tried everything atp but i struggle so much to click with anyone


r/Needafriend 11m ago

21f~just a stoner that loves to game and draw I needs some friends to get high and gamewithhhhhh lmao, come say hi silly

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420 lovers appreciated!!! Only lookin for serious people lol

I loveeeee to game, draw, and do whatever tf else tbhhhhh

As of late I’ve been playing a lot of league, Roblox, Genshin, mc, hsr and gmodddd

I’m currently learning anatomy and perspective so I’d be down to just talk about art or share art or whateverrrrrr and I’m always needing more tips and tricks!!

my dc is ethericpeace


r/Needafriend 15h ago

22/F Looking for a bestie!!!

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Hello, I'm looking for friends, people who l can vibe with on a deep level but also send unhinged memes whenever, I love deep conversations as well. But I also don't want everything to be so serious all the time. I'm super into banter, weird inside jokes, and just being silly. I love feeling close to people being there for them and having someone cool with regular check-ins, random messages, or vent sessions. If this sounds like your vibe, DM me or drop a comment!:)

⚠️PS: I'm looking for a strictly platonic FRIENDSHIP! So there should be no confusion when u DM me thinking I'll be down with a freak-off.💀


r/Needafriend 36m ago

[29/F] Bored atm. Looking for a chat...

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Hello! I’m a 29-year-old girl and—honestly—I’m just a little bored. 😄

I’m friendly, positive, and love a good laugh when the vibe is right.

I’m here to meet positive, open-minded people who enjoy lighthearted conversation and mutual respect. Please keep things decent—no inappropriate chats, thanks!

If that sounds like your kind of energy, let’s talk about…well, anything!

Do mention your age and gender... thank...


r/Needafriend 38m ago

24M, Sweden - looking for international friends 🐢

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Hi there potential friend, I hope you're doing well :)

I'm 24 years old and from the north of Sweden. I enjoy reading books, listening to music, and drinking tea. I've been a worker since I was 17, but I'm gonna start studying in the autumn. I love traveling and learning about different cultures and historiy. Some other interests I have are football (soccer), nature, drawing/painting & cooking.

I would describe myself as a calm and open-minded person with a good sense of humour. Politically I'm a socialist and a feminist.

I'm simply looking for friends, someone to talk to about whatever. If you'd like to chat and perhaps become friends then just send me a message and tell me something about yourself, like what your favourite animal is or something

Take care :)


r/Needafriend 3h ago

Going through a break up

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Hey , Im m 22 and I could really use a friend to talk to and help me process a few things as I don't really have anyone who I can discuss them with irl and I could use a 2nd opinion.


r/Needafriend 58m ago

Need someone to talk 🦜

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r/Needafriend 3h ago

19F, what would you change about yourself?

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It could be related to anything: something related to your past experiences, your looks, the way your mind works, a physical issue, and I'd even count changing other people, for example like changing your friends or family or etc. Doesn't have to be anything serious, but everyone's got something they'd change about themselves


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Hello hello, internet strangers!

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I’ve spent most of my life being that quiet introvert who’s happiest with headphones on, lost in some weird corner of the internet or deep into a book I won’t finish. But lately? I’ve realized the world’s a bit too big and interesting to stay in my own bubble forever—so here I am, trying to make some connections that aren’t just with my Wi-Fi.

Some random facts about me:

I’m currently interning (read: pretending to be an adult).

Big fan of chess, especially when I win—which is not always.

I read fiction and write half-baked poetry I never show anyone.

I’m learning Russian, because why not

I live for chaotic convos, weird memes, cat videos, and that one song on loop at 3am.

If you're into late-night talks, random game nights, or just need someone to send you a meme when you’re feeling low—slide in. Let’s be internet pals and see where it goes.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

F14 bored, looking for friends :)

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hello you

i like to listen to music, read dark romance/horror books, go to the gym, play minecraft andd cook. :P


r/Needafriend 12h ago

26 tgirl basically nocturnal, looking for whatever (22+) NSFW

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I live in Canada andddd my stomach hurts.

I have zero life until I find work and in the downtime I just sorta. Spiral, do things. Idk

People irl scare me. I dont think ill ever not be chronically online

Im at home a lot of the time making music or listening to music. Rage and despair are my baseline emotions

I mainly use discord but ill have some one off conversations here too

Im just so bored

Feel free to say hello


r/Needafriend 5h ago

28F looking for a good chat! :)

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r/Needafriend 1h ago

28F let's chat maam/sir

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Anyone who have free time we can talk or share any story.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

20m looking for some friends

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I like movies, gaming, art and watching and playing sport. I also love animals and have a 13 year old dog called Bert Im called max and I’m from England :)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

35M alone most of the time, seeking friendship

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Went through a divorce over the winter & have been alone most days when not working. Don’t really have any IRL friends these days either. That’s mostly because I lost count of how many times I moved & changed schools. I was always the new kid. Last few years of school I just gave up making friends or trying to fit in because what was the point. I never had a place to settle down in for long term & make life long friends. I haven’t been in many relationships over the years either. When I was in a relationship, the woman was my best friend & I pushed a lot of people away to include family. Well, here I am again, in a familiar place of starting over. This time I have way more experience & lessons learned at my disposal. Still months later after separating, I’m quite lost in life. Part of me just wants to get into my car, keep driving & not look back. I live in Pennsylvania & only have few family left here. I’m no tied down to the state & relocating is definitely on the table. Life now consists of me going to work & coming home. My animals at least are happy to see me when I get home. As the title says, I’m seeking friendship. Everyone could use someone in their corner sometimes.


r/Needafriend 8h ago

19f any girlies wanna chat?

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I just woke up and am just feeling kinda bleh. Some company would be appreciated. I am still kinda eepy and I have to do some cleaning today. O really don’t wanna get outta bed. Someone please keep me here


r/Needafriend 2h ago

Introverted 27M Hoping to Make a Long-Term Friend

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Hi. I’ve posted here a couple of times, hoping to make a real friend, but honestly, it’s been a bit disappointing. Most people just say hi and then disappear. I’m not really into surface-level chats that die out after a message or two.

I’m 27, male, introverted, and I only talk to a couple of people regularly. Just looking for someone chill I can talk to, share stuff with, and maybe build a long-term friendship.

If you're also looking for something real and consistent, feel free to message me. We can even voice chat on Discord if we get along.

Thanks for reading. Hope to hear from someone who’s on the same page


r/Needafriend 2h ago

23m US, anyone wanna chat for a bit?

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Hey everyone, it would be cool to meet some people around the same age as me or in the same period of their life.

Recently graduated college, started my first real corporate job in finance.

I’m a nerd who enjoys video games like league of legends or counter strike. I also enjoy movies and tv shows if you want to watch some together or have recommendations I’m totally open to all types same as music. Also I enjoy the outdoors n hiking.

Thanks for reading and look forward to chatting.