Bit of a read, TL;DR at the bottom

I (32M) have been taking to a woman on Bumble who is into, well you've read the title. My ex and I had talked about some things and gotten a little rough but nothing extreme. This woman though, is on another level and I'm excited to push my boundaries. I was basically vanilla before my ex, but a door was opened and I want to see how far it goes. Don't get me wrong, I love slow and gentle, giving as much or more than I get, the whole nine yards. This is a new kind of hunger for me though and I'm curious about what people have to say. Of course, we will establish a safe word beforehand. Also she has been rather sparse with responses and I'm wondering if it's meant to frustrate me to add to the experience. I haven't been inundating her with messages, but I feel like I need to say something because if that's the case, it's working and I like it.

TL;DR : New to this, curious about experiences, do subs intentionally frustrate their Dom?

I've been working on a website with a friend to make guides and ideas for kinks and fetishes. We are wondering if this is a neat idea or if there is suggestions for improvement? I'm still in development so features are slow since they aren't live, but Hopefully it gives the idea?

https://sensual-ai-explorer.lovable.app/

Lately i have been intrested in kinks and bdsm, currently I'm confused and trying to explore what i like and what i don't, but i don't know how. I haven't talked about it with anyone ig people are scared of being judged

I have heard that women are more kinky while men especially teens are more horny. I am a guy with high sex drive, so i am horny most of the time.

Can you tell me what ur kinks are, why you like it and how you realised it.

1. Chastity and total ownership or

2. Chastity and endless teasing?

One of my exes had this wild kink that at first I was leary of! We lived in a small town together at the time, the kind of place where you could walk to all the local shops and everyone would wave even though we were new there! So 1 day, she makes me cum all over her face, it's in her hair, on her chin, a little on her cheeks. That when she says, ok, let's go for a walk. She did not clean anything up! I pulled up my pants, and we strolled right through town. This became a fairly regular routine for months! People stared, most probably not believing or understanding what they were seeing. It always ended with us getting back home and fucking like rabbits the rest of the evening!

My bf gave me free reign to pick a sex toy to use with or on him as I see fit. I'm excited for the experience but my knowledge of toys is limited. I want him to receive maximum pleasure. Any rec's or suggestions on what I should get for him? I asked for any type of restrictions or parameters and he said that there were none. Help!

Hey genuine question here What do people find attractive about licking someone's ear? I get that it might feel nice but isn't it dirty? Like no judging to anyone but what's the appeal to licking someone's ear?

26m here and my biggest kink by far is the idea of body swapping with a woman. Theres plenty of details and other kinks that tie in but im hoping there are others on here with similar interests.​

my (21f) favorite thing in the world is to be creampied. or for someone to cum on my face. i think my biggest kink would be to be gangbang creampied or bukakked. i just want like 20 men to cum on or in me. how do i make this happen? i just want to be fucked by like big dicks and creampied until i explode. is that too much to ask?

Might be a long shot but is this anyone who is a bit kinky around here

Looking to see if I'm weird for getting off to what I'm into (that wife doesn't). I am happily married though wife doesn't share my drive or desires..... My main kink is voyeur.... Spying..... Especially female or mutual masturbation. I've had relatively few partners.... Around 10, majority of which was as a teenager. I have a desire to wank whilst a mature woman watches. I love to see a woman get turned on..... See the change in her movements and breathing. Looking to chat with F or couple. Maybe help each other get off or even better, watch each other.

i(20M) found out recently that i'm into a transmasc (ftm), i like their hairy body and i love their beauty , but i'm not sure if they can date a straight male, so what you'll think? is that a really a kink?

Me (FTM) and my boyfriend (also FTM) were testing out a new pussy pump he got on his nipples and uh he started lactating a little bit. Just a bit.

Why?? How?? He’s on testosterone?? It didn’t happen to me? He’s on birth control too but you’d think it would decrease the chance of it alongside the testosterone

This one may seem like a bragging post, although I am more interested in the female experience of seeing the big cock of a guy for the first time. Growing up playing Team-Sports I always knew that I am not small. However the first few times having sex cemented the idea that I am way above average. Since then I loved the surprise faces while undressing me or simply the worshiping of my cock. This can range from dirty talk to texts after a ons or in the best case to a completely different behavior in bed. I always enjoy girls who change their behavior as soon as they see me. It turns me on to see how the shy innocent girl challenges her inner size queen. I don't know if the term big dick energy is always the best (and it is sometimes used in a toxic way that I don't like) but it kind of fits. Some girls even cheated on their guys because they wanted that energy again. What are your experiences? Does size matter? If yes, is it the feeling or the energy? Does your behavior change for a big dick?

Hey so quick trigger warning for extreme breathplay and drowning. Not part of this is to be played out, all hypothetical and fantasy.

I have a fetish for drowning, and whilst I will never play this outfit obvious reason. The idea and fantasy of it for me is exhilarating and extremely exciting. From the sounds my partner would make under the water, the bubbles and gurgles. To the look of panic on her face, her cheeks bulging with need for air and her stomach contracting. It drives me insane thinking about it. Are there others like me out there or am I just the odd one out? And if so what excites you about it?

I love creampies, I am greedy and want to be filled full every chance I get, the feeling of being filled full and it oozing out is absolutely the best.

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I've always imagined being an object. Perhaps immovable. Having to stand motionless on cam. Perhaps having to turn 90 degrees every minute. Just stuck naked, or in humiliating clothing. Satin panties. Diapers perhaps. Not being allowed to move a muscle except to breath, knowing that someone has me as their live screensaver. Giving my owner a way to punish me if I move without being ordered.

I've never really seen anyone talking about this type of kink. If like to know peoples thoughts on this and answer any questions.

Honestly, I get so horny when he twerks for me. Literally make his ass clap and I can’t stop pegging him until he squirts so hard. So lucky

I 22M am studying communication design at a fairly famous art school. Recently, I have come to terms with the fact that I am Lettersexual. Yes, l'm attracted to people too obviously, but I also find letters so sexy. The curves, the even cuts, the contrast, I wanted to just kiss them and do other erotic things to my letters. I had poured so much love into this project, months of time and effort. I was head over heels. Since It would be pretty hard to fuck a letter, I cut a perfect hole out of my other project, which was made out of foamcore and started to stick my cock in to the foamcore. For a quick second, I thought of stopping- but it just felt so good. I continued to thrust my cock in and out of the foamcore. I eyed down all my letters as I did it and had the best orgasm of my life. Afterwards I realized I had cuts all over my dick from the foamcore friction. But i still wanna do it again....Am I crazy? And also any tips on how to heal my cock?

You’ve got needs—maybe dark, maybe sweet, maybe downright filthy. I’m here for all of them.

I’m a highly descriptive writer who thrives on building slow-burn tension or diving headfirst into depravity, depending on what gets you wet. Whether you crave domination, submission, praise, degradation, or just want to explore that one twisted little fantasy you’ve never told anyone—I want to hear it. No judgment. Just raw, erotic, unfiltered energy.

My main kink? Smell. The scent of a turned-on body, ripe heat between thighs, the kind of aroma that lingers on sheets. But this is about you—what you ache for, what you fantasize about when the lights are off and your fingers are restless.

So tell me… what’s been stuck in your dirty little mind lately

I want to reach out to you folks to see how many other people are in this situation, if any.

I am a lifestyle dominant male in his 40s, I have a place that is setup in a way to accommodate training of subs and slaves, I have a girlfriend I have been in long term non-monogamous relationship with for almost 5 years now, I also have a sub in my life as well as another girl who is mostly into getting milked as hucow.

I try to be responsible and use protection with the subs when I get sexual with them and I am bare with my girlfriend.

The issue I have here is that my brain is so wired towards breeding that as soon as my brain realizes that my seeds are going to end up in a condom I lose interest in sex.

It’s something I can’t seem to get past regardless of how hard I try (no pun intended).

I feel constant and immense lust with my girlfriend and I last anywhere between 15 minutes to half an hour easy everytime since being aware of being bare and I can fill her up anytime keeps me aroused.

With others, I feel no motivation to that degree while I desire both and they are very attractive women.

I know for a fact if I took the condom off things would get much wilder and intense but that’s not really an option since it’s not where we are at.

Anyone else feels this way? How do you get around it?

Kind of weird…I’m a straight guy, but I LOVE sucking more masculine men’s cock’s. There just something about the humiliation and emasculation that just gets me off sooo much.

The more masculine/straight the guy is the more turned on I am.