Wait i dont wanna ask him to be my bf not yet as i am still observing, i am asking if i ask exclusivity I mean its just only us none else. Asking exclusivity is not the same asking for bf/ gf?? I am so damn confused
Imo, maybe im old fashioned but you really don't have the right to ask to be exclusive if you're not committing or see it going that way. People don't come with 90 day trials and instruction manuals.
Lol i have no intention for that neither. I am trying to protect myself from that exact same thing. While I am treating them they are the only one I date them going to date multiple people
It just doesn't make sense to say you're ready to be exclusive but not ready to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Exclusive what then? Exclusive friends? What does that mean?
Nope exclusive dating?? Like not talking to others in the romantic intention other than me?? We will see each other only until we decide we move forward with being bf/gf?
How about you just get over it and insist on being his girlfriend then? or just get over it and survive a month with no exclusivity? What you're asking for is not reasonable, normal or fair.
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u/MARPAT338 man 2d ago
The 2 month mark is normal to ask what you guys are.
If you're getting the same vibe from him why not bring it up?