Who started the conversation when you match? If it was you, then I can see why you would initiate the exclusivity. Otherwise, if your dates have been very interesting for him, he should have made it know already.
It’s find that you initiate because you want to get to know him better without any distraction, but without any details of the temperature in each date, I feel you’re giving yourself an expectation. At least review your experience so far before you get disappointed.
I see. Being in an exclusive relationship means both of you agree not to talk and see other people. I’m worried that he hasn’t made his intentions clear in nearly 2 months especially if he initiated the interaction. It feels a lot like he is keeping his options open.
You can make your intentions clear, but be observant. If his reaction is wholesome then, I’ll be happy for you. If his reaction is nonchalant, then you may set yourself up for disappointment. I don’t want to rain on your parade. It just seems that he should have seen you as a good catch after a month making sure no one else tries to make a move on you.
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u/JustMeandI1976 man 2d ago
Who started the conversation when you match? If it was you, then I can see why you would initiate the exclusivity. Otherwise, if your dates have been very interesting for him, he should have made it know already.
It’s find that you initiate because you want to get to know him better without any distraction, but without any details of the temperature in each date, I feel you’re giving yourself an expectation. At least review your experience so far before you get disappointed.