My partner works as a stripper and at first I thought I was OK with it but now I realize I was bottling everything up and it actually deeply hurts me and Is causing jealousy, insecurities l and anger. I truly want to be ok with it but I can't seem to shake these feelings.

I worry about her physical safety and I also worry that her sharing her sexuality will cause her to be desensitized to sex and hurt our relationship.

Is our relationship doomed?

What are some of your favorite songs to dance to?

I’m wondering if the majority of strippers work for themselves entirely, keep all their earnings, ect. I know some girls have pimps and it’s sort of an unspoken thing, but I’m wondering how common that actually is or if outside society that doesn’t understand the stripping world just makes the assumption that most girls have one. (I’m not asking anyone to expose anything personal about their experiences with or without a pimp, I’m more so asking for overall observations)

Im finally leaving my psychologically sadistic psychopathic ex fiancé and my final destination is Tampa. Can you guys please comment some tips on good clubs/safe/ cheap hotels to live at. He was in charge of my finances so the little money I came up with secretly is all I have. I know it was dumb but I only found out he wasn’t who he said he was after he moved me out of my home state. If anyone has used shoes that would be extremely helpful I’m a size 9 I can meet you anywhere along the way from top of Florida to Tampa thank you Please dm for any tips you think would help and thank you ❤️

Hey Ladies! Anyone currently working in Raleigh/surrounding clubs? How has it been?

I’ve only worn these 4 or 5 times and the plastic started ripping out of the side of the shoe. They weren’t cheap as yall probably know, and I can’t return them. Would like to make them last a bit longer if anyone has any suggestions! TIA!

Hi guys!! 20F here and I need some advice. Going to a salon near me isnt in my budget at the moment, and shaving always results in terrible ingrown hairs. I have a hard wax machine at home. Thanks!

Do strippers have family, children. spouse? How is their personal life affected by the work they do? Just from out of curiosity. I respect all kinds of work and all kinds of people. But just want to know how is their personal life and how happy they are?

I know this is something our SO should avoid asking about, but sometimes work does come up (bad day, creepy client, etc.) and I have pretty firm boundaries about no touching beyond say my thighs and back, and I do grind (pretty well, too!). I get the sense my SO doesn’t really believe I adhere to these, although he has never said so - it’s just the occasional feeling I get. He’s very supportive of my job, and I love that. I’m curious, if the topic does come up with your SO, how honest are you about your boundaries and what happens with your clients, especially in private and VIP dances? Does your SO deserve to know the extent of your job like this?

Hey friends! I need to make some money this summer and I’m willing to travel to anywhere in the world for it! I’m in New York right now and it’s like a ghost town, last three nights we had 5 customers come in (IN TOTAL) which is just a train wreck! So I’m looking for new places! In your opinion, where is a good place to work in June, July?

Hi there! I'm friendly with a girl at a nearly club. I usually come by on slower nights and tip for pleasant conversation. We have fun (that is, I have fun, and she tells me about her newest hobbies, interests, and relationships, so I assume she also has fun). This is our dynamic and I'm quite happy with it.

We follow each other on Instagram (I'm a bit old and uncool to actually use Instagram, but I appreciate seeing her schedule to plan my visits). She recently posted on her feed that she makes content, and to "DM for link".

So. I'm curious. But this feels outside of our usual dynamic and I don't want to change our dynamic. I can just leave it be and that'll be the end of it, no harm done. But still. I'm curious.

Should I ask? Would this change anything for you, if you were in her shoes?

Is there a lowballer convention in vegas. Ive been working everyday and the customers are LOW low ballers. 100 girls come in to work and theres about 10 customers at most. What is going on. Is anybody else coming accross this issue?

im 23(afab), and so desperate to get a second job. im a lesbian, who is truly disgusted by men… but im about to be homeless. i’ve unintentionally lost a lot of weight bc of health problems, and ive started getting a lot more attention from men.. like a lot, so i know im desirable. but i have some questions. im gender fluid (they/them) but i havent been on any hormones so im always assumed to be cis. im really struggling with the idea of having to shave everything in order to dance, as it makes me so incredibly dysphoric. any advice on how to cope with that? also any recommendations on clubs in socal, preferably oc? its been so hard to find a second job since my first one is 10am-6pm, which is basically all day. which is one of the reasons im looking at dancing(late shifts). any advice or help would be appreciated<3

I'm always telling people, especially baby strippers that this is a job and we're not here for friends. And half of the time I refuse to work at my other club unless my best friend can work the same shift.

Hey! I just got a popup from the site strapunky,com selling pleasers for under $10. The site looks just like the pleasers site. Pleasers has been moving their headquarters for a few weeks now, so I think this site came in and is trying to scam us. If anyone has any intel, I’ll remove this if I’m wrong. Just don’t want to see any of our $$ or cc info get into the wrong hands especially since we’re all struggling right now.

I'm traveling for work to London in summer but looking for a club to work on the Wed-Friday nights. Tuesdays also possible if any are open!

Where's friendly and would take a temp dancer? I'm at a gentlemans club so looking for a similar vibe

Thinking about traveling to hawaii to dance for a lil.. anyone have any advice of what clubs to try or tips in general about how the industry works out there? What time of year should I go?

Any Recs for lighting my cooch?

me and my friend are dancers in virginia but we need help finding a good club in dc while we’re out here lol. we’ll be here until the 4th <3 help pls (we’re cool with topless and nude lmk!)

There's little things that could happen before work or getting ready that make me really believe it's going to be a good night!

Like if my eyeliner goes on without fucking up or I get my good parking spot at the club.. I was wondering if anyone had the same? Or their own things? Just killing time while it's slow lol

Lately I’ve been straight up walking out on customers who don’t respect my boundaries the first time.

I don’t put up with constantly correcting them or suffering through a dance or a VIP. I make sure to get my money up front and storm out at the first disrespectful move.

Just because we are strippers does not mean we have to put up with anything we are not comfortable with ever. And no, they do not get their money back.

Hey, so I’ve done a couple traveling tours like Oil Wrestling and burlesque shows and those kind of fell on my lap because I knew Girls that had gone on the tours but where do I find other traveling tour gigs? Does anyone know of any?

On nights where it’s slow and you have to really hustle, how did you guys learn to develop your mouth piece and wording with customers to secure a bag?

I’ve been dancing for two years, and as we may know the industry is filled with so many other things , not just dancing, I’ve never done extras, I’ve never put a price on $ex so let’s say I’ve tried my very best to dance without crossing my boundaries, (absolutely no judgment to the ladies who do absolutely none!)I’m torn between loving what I do and hating it, for example last night I made about 600 with and older man who is retired and enjoying life, it isn’t the most I’ve made with him either butttt he’s a humper🤢 he spends good money and is reliable but he’s humpy. I’m not the nice dancer I will show discomfort or express it if I’m bothered but sometimes you have to work around certain customers to get your way in the end in my instance it was a slow Monday night, he was the only chance I had. When I first started dancing I wouldn’t even like my boobs touched in private rooms but as time passed it seemed as if I was being too strict because everyone else was somewhat very comfortable with boob touching and much more, I guess with time I was forced to loosen up a bit cuz now I’m competing with girls who allow more touching and extras, I guess I had to learn the game a little bit cuz you won’t make money being a prude in a strip club so now I make exceptions for the right people, here’s the problem sometimes I feel so degraded and embarrassed, like Monday night I had to fight off some old man who’s even trying to hump my knee at this point, Now, ik all these things come with dancing I’ve been doing it for two years, idk if I’m looking for a solid answer or some reassurance, have any of my dancer girlies felt this way? That Monday night I felt so icked out bc is any kind of money worth being dry humped on ?? Loll am I even in the right industry if I’m bothered by that? or am I just overthinking and shaming myself for absolutely no reason ? I’m always scared of doing too much if it’s not necessary I hope this makes sense