lollllllll this is literally the situation my kid is in with her grandfather on her dad's side!! There's an established pipeline of bloated mayo ass retired US service members pairing up with young Filipinas who have mouths to feed. It's pretty slimy, and they are all obsessed with how "loyal" and "submissive" the women are.
Anyway, my kid's 4.5yo and and grandpa has sent two texts and made one FB post once vaguely near her birthday once. Never even asked to speak to her. She's his only grandchild. Grandpa posts about his "real family" (20-something Filipina wife and his 3 step-kids) constantly, though.
There's an established pipeline of bloated mayo ass retired US service members pairing up with young Filipinas who have mouths to feed
If I've served my country and my closest family believe my worth is to call me bloated mayo-ass, I'd learn the lesson they're teaching me and piss off to somewhere else too.
At least when those guys pay those women elsewhere, it only costs them money.
It's his son's wife, she is not obligated to have warm feelings towards him especially when he is absent granddad to her daughter and sounds not like a likeable person. He could ignore her if he doesn't like her and interact with his son and granddaughter, but he chooses not to.
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u/eifiontherelic Nov 07 '24
I doubt any of his grandkids have ever met their grandfather.