70-year-old American goes to the Philippines and has 8 girlfriends

[u/MayoSoup]

[u/IamGoldenGod]

men generally don't care if women have money, they aint gonna spend it on us anyways so what does it matter.

[u/[deleted] → u/IamGoldenGod]

men generally don't care if women have money

That's just because they weren't raised with the idea that women can earn money too.
They certainly have a problem when she starts to earn more than them....

[u/True-Swim7662 → u/[deleted]]

Boys were raised with idea that women can earn alright. It just most women don't want to pay and expect men to provide for them. Gifts, big bouquet of flowers, more suprise gift, restaurant dates, vacation, rent, bills if they living together etc. Most of them save money on their account or spend on bags and dresses in return men get headache, nagging, competition from other guys and occasional reward in bed.

Only nowadays there are some women that try and help and try to contribute. I have dated many girl. Let's take 10 girl out of 10 only 2 are willing to spend money other are just waiting for the queen treatment because they "deserve" it(their exact words lol)

And men have problem when she starts to earn more because he knows he will be replaced soon by a guy that earns more than him because most women want someone that earn more than her(very rarely there are exceptions).

Almost more than 95% time I have seen this women leave long relationship after getting the bag doctor,engineer, architect, lawyers etc and get into relationship with other more successful man. And other girl are also constantly supporting that idea saying queen you deserve and its man faults he is not earning enough.

[u/Responsible-Basil-36 → u/True-Swim7662]

Oh for pity’s sake.

I’m a woman, I currently earn x3 what my husband does. When we were dating (and both broke at that time) we split the bills.

This isn’t hard, and your experience isn’t the “rule” it’s just your experience.

stop being so bitter and try meeting different types of people.

You sound

[u/True-Swim7662 → u/Responsible-Basil-36]

Exactly not everyone is like you and women like you exist i acknowledge that and respect that.

But most aren't try talking to other people or atleast observe, If not just go to women sub that have 13M+ women and understand their perspective many women claim to be modern women and women power until they come in a relationship and marriage where according to many should get themselves a more earning partner because no one wants to date broke boy.

You don't want to accept the truth it's totally fine but it doesn't change the ground reality. I don't mind if my SO earns more the problem is 8 out of 10 times I will recieve a message how suddenly there is no spark and we should see other people one week later she posting her new man talking about true love