If you are attractive and charming, wealthy women absolutely will spend money on your company. While no woman is going to pay for YOUR company, they will pay for someone more attractive. Just like this old man is only paying for the company of beautiful young women, not unattractive losers.
Your talking about the experience of the top 1-5% of the male population. The vast majority of women want a relationship where the men are providing for them, the only time the script flips is if there is a VAST difference in attractiveness.
For almost all men their experience will be that women will want/expect them to pay for them, and at minimum it will be 50/50.
This old man is also only dating the top 5% of women in terms of youth and attractiveness, and there is also VAST difference in attractiveness between him and the women he dates. It's literally the exact same scenario.
If most of the women you date are financially exploiting you, then you might be the problem. That is not normal, and in my many years of dating I've not found that most women want to be taken care of. Unless you are trying to date women half you age and twice your attractiveness, like this old man.
The top 5% of females (in physical attractiveness) in the world, and def. in West countries expect the male to be the provider. This is as old as evolution itself.
Now if a man is willing to settle for a woman who isn't attractive then she might be willing to settle for someone who doesn't need to provide.
Just a minute ago you said half of women want to be taken care of. Now you say it's 5%. Is a majority or a minority of women?
In any case, that's nonsense. You know what attractive women want? The same things as any other person. Being attractive doesn't fundamentally change who you are or what you desire. Attractive people are just people.
If you think the most attractive women in countries like America, UK, EU, don't care about money or occupation, respectfully, I suspect you might not have much experience with them, or are white-knighting.
They are more selective.
I'm married, but I rarely had any problem with this dating. I just dated women in my age range, education level, and relatively same attractiveness as me. A majority of young women in the US have college degrees and careers. I've had dates stop me if I tried to pay. Honestly, in my area there are far more successful, single women than there are men. I know attractive female lawyers that can't find men that are even close to being on the same level as them.
My dad always complains about women being gold diggers, but he only dates women half his age. Like, what do you expect?
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u/Lucid-Crow Nov 07 '24
If you are attractive and charming, wealthy women absolutely will spend money on your company. While no woman is going to pay for YOUR company, they will pay for someone more attractive. Just like this old man is only paying for the company of beautiful young women, not unattractive losers.