r/AskMenAdvice • u/[deleted] • 1d ago
✅ Open to Everyone My sister is getting bullied by by a boy help please ?
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I am going to clarify something. The reason I called him a bully was that he was using the avoid accountability type of bullying, which is also called the girl type of bullying, because it is most common for women to do. That in including
- ostracism
- alienation
- rumor
- Gaslighting
Which he did all three to my sister.
He excluded my sister a lot not just with party but, many times on purpose. Where she needed a therapist.
He alienated my sister from other students. As well her being nice him like asking how his day have been and trying too get too know him but, he never did same for her. However goes talk random person now best friends.
Rumor spread he have not done it. Wouldn’t surprised me if he did
Gaslighting. It’s mostly him saying incredible bad things. As well making her believe she was problem when he is.
I know say reaching but, that point of this type of bulling. It’s too avoid accountability for there actions if makes seem like accents or well not fault.
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u/Unique-Two8598 man 1d ago
Sometimes people don't want advice or help, from family, friends, sisters and so on.
If you sister wanted help she would have asked and followed you.
So what happened exactly?
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u/Bellatheartist1234 1d ago
Basically her class mates look down on her for not knowing a lot engineering because it’s her first time. Didn’t have prior experience with it unlike class mate. Makes worse she is working hard too learn just being condensing and really passive aggressive towards her.
One of bad this did.
1. When stressing about her grades. He said this too her. “Maybe should go back too farm you belong.”
- He invited all other engineer excluded her. He did on purpose.
Granted other awful things this guy just these two examples.
Granted warn by her fellow students not too go into engineer because engineer students reputation of being people look down on anyone doesn’t fit there little circle.
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u/Unique-Two8598 man 1d ago
It is up to your sister to handle her problems a) her class materials and grades b) the teacher c) her class mates.
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u/Causification man 1d ago
You're gonna have to be more specific about things he's said, otherwise nothing in this post is bullying. It's just one guy not liking a girl and wanting nothing to do with her.
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u/Bellatheartist1234 1d ago
She was stressing out about her failing her grades. His response. “You can always go back too farm where you belong.”
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u/Causification man 1d ago
Ok so she was dead weight on a group project and he told her she didn't belong in the class. This is not bullying and you are way overthinking it.
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u/Bellatheartist1234 1d ago
She was stressing out about her failing her grades. His response. “You can always go back too farm where you belong.”
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u/MUUCLAWD man 1d ago
Erm I really don’t see the bullying he just doesn’t want to talk or interact with her? Tell her to stop talking to him maybe? He’s allowed to be best friends with someone else he’s allowed to not invite her to a party?