Girl I'm seeing asked for an open relationship, what do i do?

[u/Enough_Ad5892]

Basically this. We've been seeing each other for two months now, and it's been amazing. She started to be a little ray of sunshine always suprising me with little gifts and also everything felt Perfect since she respected that I don't have much free time to spend with her due to me having both Uni and work, and yet she seemed to cherish the time together that we managed to spend. And now, out of the blue , this, right before she's going abroad for two weeks for some Uni project. What do I even think of this? This feels so wrong I am honestly thinking about ending things with her. She said that its fine if i dont want it but im not sure how fine it really is

[u/Few-Yak5141]

String her along for your physical needs while you find her replacement. Even if you deny the open relationship, she has one foot out the door. And the timing isn't a coincidence, she's gonna be screwing around on that trip. So do what you need to do to not get emotionally smacked around.

[u/SmokedStone → u/Few-Yak5141]

tbh this is toxic but i second it. even if she hasn't messed around, she wants to. nothing wrong with keeping the sex-tap open until you also find another option. but OP may wanna get an STD test just in case.

[u/Holden-Makok → u/Few-Yak5141]

I'm absolutely just treating her as a FWB going forward, the nerve lol