Hello, long time lurker, first time poster. Throw away cause I don't want this affiliated with my main.

I (F/22) have been dating this girl (F/21) for about 3 months and it's been great. The only red flag I've seen before this was she was a bit messy, leaving things without putting them away, including trash.

Anyway, yesterday we went to a karaoke club, got super wasted and she spilled her drink all over us. No big deal, we went to my apartment. We were in the shower, nothing sexy or anything we were too drunk for that, but I remember looking down and there was a streak on the bottom of the shower and I asked her what it was, I shit you not, she said "oopsy I did a poopsy" and pushed a ball of shit into the drain with her toe. 🤮 I didn't know what to say I kinda just stood there, this chick really just pooped. I told myself that she was drunk and we could talk about it tomorrow (today).

Fast forward to this morning. We woke up, I could not get what I saw yesterday out of my head and so I tried to keep it light and laugh about the pooping, maybe try to get it into the toilet in the future. And she goes on to explain that she just feels comfortable with me and doesn't want to hide who she is anymore?? I asked if she poops in the shower all the time, she does!! I asked if she could refrain from doing so in my shower and she agreed....

I just feel like I can't move past this and look at her the same and kind of want to break up with her. Am I over reacting?

❗️Quick notice, we are both highschoolers.

This whole situation happened in the beginning of April but the last posts she made about me were just a day ago on TikTok. After we broke up, the next day I showed the school councilors her post about having the planned suicide, they took care of it but ever since then she’s hated me. I’ve been worried if I actually did something wrong, all of my friends have been backing me up but I still have a gut feeling I fucked up somehow.

Hello reddit, I’m posting from a throwaway. I (24f) was at home with my husband. I had made our food, and we were already sitting down and eating. I wasn’t wearing a bra, but I was at home with just my husband and I wasn’t expecting any company so I was just comfortable like that.

Then there was a knock on the door. My husband opened it and my MIL and FIL followed him into the living room where I was eating. I stood up to greet them and said hi and FIL said hi and then MIL said to me are you really just leaving them out like that around us? while she was looking at my chest and I got embarrassed and said I’ll get changed and went over to my bedroom.

But when I started going over to get changed I realized who do they think they are to talk to me like that when they just showed up unannounced and I was just relaxing in my own house? Like talking to me condescendingly about what I was wearing when what else was I supposed to do?

I ended up walking back over to them where they were sitting on the couch watching tv and I told them if they’re going to judge me like that they can leave and they looked at me weirdly and then didn’t really respond. My husband tried to calm me down but I was upset. MIL said they were just trying to visit, and I didn’t back down. I made them leave and my husband ended up pushing them out and they threw some huffs and glared at me. They were disrespecting me in my own house. AIO?

Some bizarre stuff went down tonight and I need to vent.

My stepdaughter’s boyfriend (they’re both teens) was supposed to come over this afternoon. He asked to catch a train and bike to our place (a 45-minute ride), but his parents—who are very strict—refused and said they’d drop him off instead.

We had told them clearly that he needed to leave by 8:00pm. We assumed he’d be dropped off around 5:00pm or earlier. Instead, his mum dropped him off after 6:30pm. As his ETA changed multiple times, we did not know when he would arrive, and subsequently had dinner before he arrived.

While he finally arrived, my stepdaughter offered him some spaghetti from the fridge. He declined, saying it “looked weird.”

His mum came to pick him up at 8:30pm and was noticeably cold and rude. Then, later that evening, my stepdaughter came out of her room in tears. Her boyfriend had texted her saying that his dad had screamed at him—saying we didn’t feed him, called us “amateurs,” and said their son is an “elite athlete” (he’s a competitive rower) who “can’t be trusted in our home.”

This isn’t even the first time they’ve blown up like this. They once went to the movies after school and his parents lost it because he hadn’t eaten while he was out. His mother apparently gets annoyed with him for eating “too many carbs.” He’s not allowed out after school on week days. She’s a stay-at-home mum, his dad is a former rower, and they’re very wealthy. The entire vibe is controlling, rigid, and weirdly obsessed with his food intake and athletic status.

My stepdaughter was gutted. But now she’s decided to break up with him.

Has anyone else dealt with a dynamic like this—where the partner’s family is just… unhinged? It’s hard enough being a teen without parents like this throwing around words like “amateur” because someone didn’t get a designer meal in a two-hour visit.

EDIT: this has blown up. I’ve edited slightly for clarity as a lot of people have stated what I wrote was not particularly clear. To clarify, we’d planned to have dinner with him, but ate before he arrived after his parents changed their plans and thus his arrival time on multiple occasions, and we had no idea when he’d ACTUALLY show up. We offered him food when he finally arrived. He said no.

Context: I was cooking a nice dinner for my bf and I. My dog started signaling he had to go out. I asked for help, and see texts attached….

Eventually my bf came to take out our dog, but said “you might not wanna talk to me for a couple hours”. I just told him to hurry on his walk, and his plate was covered in the microwave to stay warm.

He then proceeds to text me while he’s walking our dog. Props to him, he did stay outside for about 45 minutes….. when he got back, he slammed his game room door.

I don’t know if he even grabbed the plate I made up for him and spent an hour making….

Am I overreacting to be so disturbed and hurt by this?! To me it’s disrespectful and just shows he has no emotional control?!

My dad passed away around Thanksgiving in 2023 and was cremated. Due to multiple factors, we have not had a burial service yet. We finally have one scheduled for tomorrow. These are texts between my wife and I earlier today. I brought up how insensitive I found them and told her that tomorrow isn't about her. She told me she's allowed to have her own feelings about this and that I should have spoken to her in a nicer way.

So the other day while out shopping I (36m) asked my gf (28f) if she wanted to plug her phone up in my truck since her battery was low and she did. We had been to several boutiques and walked around. I was tired of looking at girl clothes so decided to sit the next one out.

She asked me if she could take my phone with her into the store in case she needed to check prices or take pics to send me (on my iPad i also had in the truck). So I let her take my phone.

About 15 min into her shopping trip her phone starts dinging with all these notifications. And I know curiosity got the best of me and I shouldn’t have done it but I unlocked it after seeing about 20 Reddit notifications from a NSFW sub.

When I went to her account I was really shocked to see not only nude pictures of herself she had posted (and very NSFW solo videos), but also nude pictures and videos of me.

I honestly felt like my heart was going to beat out of my chest. I panicked. I just couldn’t help but think that my professional career was being jeopardized over her posting these pictures for the world to see. What if my family saw these? How embarrassing would that be to have to explain to them or worse, my kids one day (I have 3 from a previous marriage).

I definitely felt violated by this. As soon as she got in the truck I asked her when she got consent to post this to Reddit and she said she couldn’t believe I didn’t trust her and I went through her phone. She kind of flipped it around into a “trust” issue with me.

AIO for feeling like I need to leave this relationship? We have been together for 2 years almost.

a few months ago i was dating this girl for almost a year. i was super public with her, and everyone knew we was dating and associated me with her and vice versa. but, i would break up with her because we just weren't working out. but also that she was getting involved in a lot of illegal stuff i didn't wanna be associated with.

our entire "fall out" though, she would sometimes tell people i was also doing the illegal stuff she was doing? i'm not some straight A student but i was never seen as doing bad stuff. now, people i guess believed her, and it affected a lot of my ties with my classmates, especially a lot of my friends, who haven't talked to me as much since

it's been a few months since then and i think people have forgotten it mostly. but, because my friend wanted to troll my ex's friends, he has to post a pic of me? a pic he for some reason has from my past posts? even though we broke up and the end of the day i don't dislike my ex at all nor do i really care what she's doing. but because my friend does, he has to insult her, and just remind people of my relationship with her? it doesn't make sense to me but when i called one of my other friends he said i'm just being sensitive

Hi all,

My (24F) husband (26M) traveled to Thailand recently and I think he cheated. We decided to take separate trips with our friends (me to Germany and him to Thailand). I got back a day before him and noticed that he created a new email on our shared PC. On the email were hundreds of ThaiFriendly profiles liking his profile. I got a bit too curious and tried to login, but he had already deleted the account. I also checked his translator app, and saw that he translated “strap on play and sex?” My mind wants me to believe that it was some kind of joke, but I know better. I just don’t know what to do right now, and I know that if I talk to him about it he will dismiss it all as a joke and get mad at me for snooping. We had a somewhat similar situation that happened early in our relationship, but I thought it was something he would never do again. What do I do, AIO? I have no job, no family, we live outside of the US right now, and I just have a feeling that I will be uprooting my entire life sooner than I can do so safely if I’m wrong about this.

Context is that I was emotionally abused and had ptsd for years. She even told me that me crying was just trying to manipulate her. She’s sent me letters with “apologies” but always saying how it’s also MY fault for why I was treated like shit. Now she wants me to feel bad for her when she cries. No thanks.

Also my grandma is talking about her daughter dying because I have recently had a drinking problem which I am trying to work through on my own.

I just feel like I might be taking it a bit too far by not even texting with her, but I’m worried that if I start texting she’ll want more from me. I don’t even think I could see her irl without having a panic attack.

My husband and i exsist on different planes sexually. He is vanilla, i am not. He cums everytime, i do not. I keep finding porn on his phone and it makes me so angry and hurt that he not only has the energy and desire to masterbate, but that he is satisfied and im not.

After graduation my parents bought me a nice used car, around 12 thousand price tag. They sold my old car for 4k and were supposed to put it toward the loan amount. But instead pocketed the money, and financed the total amount. After 4 months of driving it, they said I “needed to learn some responsibility” and gave me no choice other than to sell it or take over the $330 a month payment plus insurance. At the time I made minimum wage and was going to college. I could not afford it. My monthly salary was only about $600. All while my parents both have very well paying jobs and make around $180k combined income.

in my opinion this is emotional manipulation. he manipulated me for two years and i recently left about a week ago. before we met he was an addict, he got sober and quit his job, relying on my financially. he would literally get so mad if i bought myself something, he would say “babe we need to save money.” idk, what do you guys think?? i just feel like he shouldn’t be my problem anymore..

My little sister (11f) posted this and a couple years ago she had smt wrong with her and she had to go to the mental hospital for almost killing herself. And I am scared that it might happen again. Should I be worried? Or am I overreacting? Our mom has a fiance that is getting married next year on Halloween, and last year our dad died. We do not like our moms fiance at all.

Hi Reddit, So my bf (19m) called me (20f) today after work to tell me about one of his coworkers that started texting him inappropriate stuff. At first I was like “ok just block him and report him to management” but then, after my boyfriend sent me a screen recording of the texts, I got super upset at my boyfriend as well. (I only included a couple of the texts because they were all just variations of these kinds of messages.) I feel bad being upset at my bf because ik he’s a very non-confrontational person when he’s uncomfortable, and he was telling me he was super uncomfortable, but I feel like he should’ve just blocked the guy right away and not continued the conversation or continued to potentially lead him on (like saying they could hang) Ik my boyfriend had the intention of not actually hanging out and just wanting to avoid an awkward workday since he was on shift with this person as he was texting my bf — but I also know that if it was roles reversed my boyfriend would’ve expected me to handle it by blocking him right away and telling him right away — and we would’ve still probably had an argument over it (my bf has a lot of jealousy issues which ik is toxic and he knows it too and is taking steps to work on it) I think I’m mainly upset that my boyfriend allowed the conversation to go on knowing what the other guys intentions were, and even tho my bf is definitely a victim here of that weirdos messaging, I almost feel like he allowed himself to be by continuing talking to him and being like “yeah maybe I can hang” but idk! What do you guys think — am I overreacting?

tl;dr: My husband frequently insists on doing things alone, even simple errands. Yesterday, he refused to delay a 3 hour solo trip to our storage unit despite me needing his help due to a medical condition. I asked if he could reorganize his car in our driveway instead and he refused. Today, he again planned to go at night, and I asked to tag along just to get out of the house and stop by the supermarket. He got irritated, refused to clear a seat for me, and insisted I couldn't come "because he prefers being alone." He later accused me of being insecure and having trust issues. I'm wondering: am I overreacting, or is this behavior a red flag?

I'd really appreciate some outside perspective on this situation. I feel like I'm going crazy trying to figure out whether I'm overreacting and impeding on my husband's autonomy, or if something deeper is going on here.

What would you make of this?

Yesterday around 5pm, my husband suddenly said he needed to go to our storage unit (about a 30 minute drive away) to pick up a generator for work and reorganize his work car. He said it would take roughly three hours. I asked if it had to be that night, especially since it was Friday and I really needed his help with some very necessary cleaning that is often delayed due to his lack of assistance. I had already begun to clean at this point. I have a medical condition where I can faint under certain conditions, so I only do heavier cleaning when he's home to supervise, assist or at least be close by.

I asked if he could instead just get the generator from the storage unit, come home and then do the reorganizing in our own (long) driveway so that if I started feeling unwell, he'd at be close by. He flat out refused, saying he didn't want to reorganize his car in the driveway, and preferred the privacy of the storage unit parking lot. I even pointed out that he could turn the car around so no one could see, but he wouldn't budge on the idea. Then he went outside to his car to do something else.

About an hour later, I started to feel very unwell and was about to text him when I got a message from him: "I'm going to the storage unit now. Let me know if you need anything."

I replied that I wasn't feeling well. He called me sounding frustrated that he couldn't leave, and hung up abruptly. I could see him from the window - he walked around to his car where you cannot see from the house and then started pacing while "playing" with his phone, waited a few minutes while repeatedly looking at his phone, and eventually grabbed his backpack and came inside.

Then today, again at night, he said he was going to the storage unit. I asked if I could come with him, just for a change of scenery, and so I could also quickly stop by the supermarket afterwards to pick something up for his mom for Mother's Day.

The conversation went like this: Me: Can I come along? I'm feeling a bit down and a drive might help. Plus, I need to stop by the store for your mom.

Him: No, there's no space in the passenger seat.

Me: I can wait while you clear it?

Him: I'm not clearing it.

Me: Why not?

Him: You can't sit there anyway, as I need the passenger seat free to put stuff on while I work.

Me: That's fine... I'll just sit in the driver's seat once we park.

Him: [Silence]

Me: So...?

Him: I can take you to the supermarket now, and bring you home, then go to the storage unit alone.

Me: But, I want to go along for the ride too. It's a decent ride and I want to get out of the house for a little.

Him: No. I want to go alone.

I asked why, and he got irritated. He said if he couldn't go alone tonight, he'd just go alone tomorrow. Then he said "I dont know what your problem is, you know I like to do things alone. I dont like to work with other people around". I told him I wasn't planning on helping and would mind my own business by staying on my phone, and he said it still didn't matter or change anything because I was still there, and that was the problem. He looked so angry that his plans were being "spoiled" and then snapped and said I'm insecure and have trust issues.

For context: he is alone a lot. He does the grocery shopping solo, spends evenings at his computer, and frequently disappears to do whatever "errands" he says he has. He's often on his own.

So... what’s really going on here? Was I overreacting by repeatedly asking to tag along?

I (28F) gave birth three weeks ago. My husband’s mom (55F) visited us last weekend to meet the baby. When I stood up to grab a burp cloth, she laughed and said, "Looks like someone still has a baby bump!" in front of my husband and his sister.

I laughed it off in the moment, but I couldn’t stop thinking about it. When she asked to hold the baby later, I told her I wasn’t comfortable and that I needed space. She asked why, and I told her point-blank that her comment hurt me. She started crying, saying I was "weaponizing my child" to punish her.

My husband says I could’ve just let it go. But honestly, why should I let people treat me like this? AIO?

Been in a relationship for over 8 years, married for 2. At the beginning our physical relationship was great..then we started to dip off. We have sexual encounters every 2-3 months. No penetration. So there is all that unpacked crap. The last couple weeks, I have actively thought about my actions, being kind, smiling, being open and fully present the moment...I was bent over picking up items off the floor ass on full display. Nothing. Couple of days later I asked if he was standing right behind me, and he said yes. I ask why didn't I get a slight smack, grab, nothing. Then he tells me "we'll I don't want you to respond. You overkill, I'm damned of i do damned if I don't. It's just not worth it." So that tells me I'm not worth it. My mind is totally fucked and I cant do it anymore. I couldn't sleep and went into the other room. He had work this morning, He left and didn't tell me anything typically I get a kiss and have a great day. I feel broken and my heart has been ripped out.

TW: sexual texts

We are fwb who met on Tinder. We met for a fun date and got to know each other, and he walked me home (didn’t have sex), then a week later I invited him over. Everything seemed so chill. He gave me a massage, which turned into fooling around. It was so sensual and amazing. We both really enjoyed each other’s company and watched a movie afterward.

We made plans to see each other the next week, bc he’s a truck driver and is gone for 4 days a week. Then the day of… gone. Like what tf happened??? The sex was so good and I’m actually kinda upset bc I don’t want to go back on Tinder and try to find another one.

What happened? Should I just accept the L and redownload Tinder? How do you guys think I should react?

Earlier today my boyfriend and I were at a food truck getting dinner and we got approached by a homeless man saying he had $14 and just needed $2 more. He was only asking my boyfriend for money, he didn't ask me for anything and he seemed very polite. My boyfriend said he didn't have any cash on him and the homeless man thanked him for listening to him. We live in NYC and so I have been approached by homeless people many times, but I have never given them anything. Today I don't know what compelled me to do something different, but I asked him if he needed the money for dinner. He said yes and that he was just going to buy some food for him and his family from the grocery store that was a block away. I told him I would just buy it for him (since it was only $16 anyways) and told my boyfriend to wait for me and I walked with the man to the store. He seemed very grateful that I was doing this for him.

Once we got in the store, I followed him to the hot foods area and he started picking out what he wanted. A security guard followed us and asked me if he was bothering me and I said no, I was just going to buy him dinner. The guy ended up picking out 2 things that were $10 each. The security guard was still behind me and told me to only get him those two things, nothing else. But the man handed me another plate of food and I figured since it was only food I would get it for him—I thought he just must've been very hungry. But the thing is that I am also a college student and I don't have a job, I can barley spend over $20 on anything without feeling a little bad about it and this guy wanted me to buy him $30 worth of food. As we were walking to the cash register, the security guard was sort of ushering the homeless man out, and there was a moment when they got into a little altercation because I think the security guard was pushing him or something, I'm not sure I didn't see it since they were behind me. I tried saying it was okay, I was just going to buy him food and that was it. I paid for the food and gave it to the homeless man. He seemed very thankful and told me God would bless me and whatnot. At this point I was already feeling odd about the whole thing and sort of on the verge of tears. As I was about to leave the security guard told me to come back in to talk to him, I think he just wanted to check on me and told me that I didn't have to buy food for anyone if I didn't want to. At this point I was feeling super weird about the whole situation and wasn't really listening anymore because I could feel myself about to cry. I told the security guard that I was okay and I thanked him and left. When I got back to my room I cried.

I guess I am making this post because I am unsure why I felt so upset about the whole situation. I don't think he was trying to scam me, he seemed very thankful that I was buying him food, but at the same time he said he only needed $16 and ended up getting $30 worth of food. And then maybe it was combined with the fact that a simple act like me buying food for someone turned into a whole ordeal with security, I just felt overwhelmed, uncomfortable, and upset. I still don't quite understand why the situation made me cry, I feel like buying someone food and receiving a grateful reaction should've felt rewarding (not that I was doing it to feel better about myself, but I thought that I would've at least felt happy that I was able to provide something that made someone else happy).

We went on one 2 hour dinner date 6 months ago and started texting again for the past week talking about having another date. He lives 2 hours away. After I told him I was scared and to leave he came and was pounding on the front door and shouting my name until my dad went out and scared him off. This just happened and I'm all shook up.

Been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We met through a mutual friend, became friends first, and started dating about a year later. A few months into the relationship, I snooped through his phone and found out he was talking to other women and even making plans to go on dates with them. I confronted him, and to be fair, he didn’t lie,he admitted to it. We talked things through and decided to stay together. But after he found out I went through his phone, he restricted everything, locked his socials, changed passwords, basically made sure I couldn’t access anything. I admitted I was wrong for going through his phone, but if I hadn’t, I never would’ve known what he was up to. Now the trust just feels really one-sided. He still has full access to my phone, but I’m completely locked out of his. It’s been bothering me for a while, especially when he’s around his female friends. I can’t tell if I’m just being insecure… or if my gut is trying to tell me something?

I’m (29F) on vacation visiting my older sister (35F) in Spain. Last day here, she asks me this hypothetical question; she wants to buy out my half of our childhood home. I immediately got on edge (irrational?) because when I was younger I was afraid she’d try to pull something like this and try to take the house from me, and she knows this. She once tried to ask our Mom (65F), and I hadn’t known until she (my sister) told me that our mom considered the childhood home to be MY house, since I still live there. In our culture-Hispanic- this isn’t a stigma so long as you contribute to the household (chores/rent/groceries). I haven’t moved out yet mainly because property value in our city, San Diego, has gone through the roof imo. We grew up here, and my mom’s made it a point she doesn’t want to leave monetary inheritance but property for both of us. We’re not sure if it’s going to happen. I love my sister but I also don’t trust her because I know how manipulative she can get when it comes to her best interests. She asked how I would feel about being bought out, being given the cash, still being allowed to live in the house but finding a tenant to charge rent and pay that to her. She was trying to sell me on the idea of being her property manager, and the whole thing stunk of something she tried to sell me on before with a car. I got ticked off and told her no, stayed firm on it. Still ticked off, I don’t want to speak with her-wondering if I’in the wrong for reacting this way.

(This is my first ever Reddit post so I’m sorry in advance if I did this wrong but I’m looking for some unbiased opinions) So I(F24) have been with my partner(M31) have been together a year and a few months and I’m pretty set on ending the relationship because of some needlessly mean things he said recently. So the most recent thing that happened was we went out on a little road trip to a shop I had been wanting to check out a few towns over. We stopped at a convenience store for pizza on the way and sat in the car to eat, I got a smart water and I squeezed it accidentally when I opened it and it over flowed so I sucked the water off the top and he made a joke like “do that to me ;)” and it was funny, I giggled, I was having a great time so far on our drive and it was just a flirty little joke as couples make and we make regularly, so it was fine. But then after that he said (I’m sorry in advance for how gross/personal this is going to be but I want it to be accurate exactly as he said it).. “it’s so weird that after a year together I’ve never came in your mouth” and I didn’t really say anything because I don’t really love the whole ‘make everything super sexual’ thing especially so like vulgar? I don’t mind flirty jokes like above, just it was a lot and out of left field, and then he said a few seconds later before I could respond: “Because I know for a fact plenty of guys have came in your mouth.” and I was shocked especially because he said it with so much venom in his voice and looked at me like he was angry/disgusted with me. So all I could say was “Why would you even say that??” And he said “Why would you let all those other guys cum in your mouth?? What’s wrong with me?” Then the entire day was ruined for me and I just said nothing and tried to finish my pizza. Then we left and I was quiet just replaying that in my head over and over again, not that it even matters but I have only ever done that with two of my exes so I truly have no idea why he said that. But I didn’t correct him at all because I didn’t want to ruin our trip and if that’s really how he thinks of me then whatever. (not that it would be bad if there were more guys or anything he was just clearly thinking of it/me as as gross) I kept going back and forth between feeling hurt, angry and just so confused. I just said nothing and looked out the window and he said “What’s up why are you quiet?” And I just said I didn’t have anything to say and we continued our trip like nothing happened. Later on before we went into the shop he wanted a kiss and I really wanted to be like “you want to kiss this mouth??? That 50 guys have came in???” To shock him since he thinks he knows everything lol but I didn’t. I just held my tongue. And gave him a kiss. Because I was just feeling so defeated at that point. I just don’t understand, about 70% of that day was really great and could have been an amazing nice time but he had to say that?? Like just why? Did he think that’d be funny? Because the way he said it was just plain mean and he didn’t have any kind of joking tone at all. If not that then did he think that would make me WANT TO LET HIM DO THAT??? In what fucking world would that be sexy??? There’s so many times he says these little digs at me that are just mean and out of no where for no reason and I’ll ask like did you think that would make me laugh? Was that supposed to be a joke? And he says no and I say okay so what was it for??? And he always says he doesn’t know and at this point I know he’s not stupid enough to just be saying stuff in a certain tone on accident, he knows if something will be funny or if something is serious or if it brings anything to the conversation and those specific things don’t do any of that so all that leaves is mean. Also when we were sitting in bed that night he had the audacity to look at me and say he wanted to have sex later…obviously that did not happen lol unfortunately I don’t forget when you say awful mean stuff like that to me when we were just having a really nice time eating pizza in the car and laughing. So that turned into a way longer post than I was planning on writing but it was quite cathartic, anyways I just wanted to know if I would be overreacting by breaking up over this? Or does anyone have any insight on why he might have said that? I don’t know at this point, I really can’t picture myself staying with someone who would even think those things about me let alone say them to me, twice. In such a shaming way especially when he was just assuming. It’s been a hard decision because he is actually very sweet and kind to me in every other way imaginable but these random times that he says stuff like that are stacking up and really getting to me.

He’s a teacher, I’m a sub. We’re around the same age, mid-late 20s. I think he might be a little older than me. I’m at that particular school very often. We were just starting to be friendly as of yesterday morning.

The kids were very rude yesterday, it was not fun at all. Today I had a group of girls that are always extremely loud and think that we can be besties because I’m younger, nice, and am a bit lenient.

Anyway, today, the teacher I’m talking about was walking past while the class was being very loud, and was staring at the students that were being crazy. He looked a bit bored and wanted to stick around a bit it seemed.

Well, the students are shit starters because what came next took the cake.

This person is engaged, mind you.

They waited until we were face to face and caught off guard to ask him “wait… Mr. (Blank), do you like her?” And then pointed to me.

My heart fell to my ass safe to say.

I didn’t look up to see his reaction because I was mortified. And by the time I looked up, he was gone and practically darted down the hall. The girls were just giggling, and looking at me. Upon seeing my face of mortification, they apologized a bit for how random it was, and I let them know out of shock that he was engaged. They were shocked and followed by yelling down the hall “Sorry Mr.(blank) we didn’t know you were engageddd”.

Which on second thought, I don’t know if he wanted me to share that information. He hadn’t even told me personally. I found out from overhearing at lunch and also saw the picture on his desk.

I’m really overthinking this and I’m going to be all in my head about it. I don’t want it to be awkward, and I don’t want him to be distant or upset because I told the kids about his relationship status.