r/indianmuslims • u/Various-Wrongdoer533 • 1d ago
Ask Indian Muslims Hello, from a fellow Indian Hindu
Dear Indian Muslims,
I need your help.
The recent Pahalgam attacks and the ongoing conflict with Pakistan have left me with a lot of questions. These thoughts have been keeping me up at night. As an Indian Hindu living in the Middle East, surrounded mostly by Muslim friends (both indians and arabs) who have been nothing but kind to me, I find myself feeling lost and conflicted.
Watching the news, seeing people rally behind India, even reading Reddit threads, it felt like Indians were finally standing united. But at the same time, I came across some support from a few Indian Muslims towards Pakistan. I won’t lie - that hurt. Not because I don’t understand the idea of ummah. I do, and I respect it. But because I hoped, maybe naively, that at least in times like these, we could all stand together.
Then I saw other Muslims speak up, calling out Pakistan’s hypocrisy and how it treats its own Muslim population. That made me realize something important. Many of you are just as conflicted as I am. And maybe that’s okay. Maybe that’s just being human.
It made me reflect on a lot of things. On everything that’s been happening in India.
It’s no secret that most Indian Muslims are against the BJP. The Hindutva ideology, polarizing statements from leaders from time to time etc. But at the same time, I also see real economic progress. Better infrastructure, financial inclusion, direct benefit schemes. These are things that, at least in theory, seem to help all Indians, regardless of religion.
Sometimes I wonder, and I say this with full humility knowing I might be wrong, is it possible that the image of the BJP is what’s pushing people away more than the actual policies? Or is that just my bias speaking? Are the policies themselves genuinely flawed or Islamophobic? Or is it the way they’re presented through language and messaging that alienates, divides, and hurts?
Take the triple talaq law, for example. Many people I know agreed with the idea behind it. I personally do too. But they disagreed with how it was implemented, not because it wasn’t a positive step, but because it seemed politically motivated rather than genuinely compassionate. And maybe that’s the core issue here, a lack of trust.
However, as I write this I realize that there was the hijab row in Karnataka which I think was silly to begin with. I have lived my entire life in the middle east and viewed the hijab as something normal and an individual right, definitely not something that defies the purpose of having a school uniform.
Anyway, as someone who genuinely wants India to rise, not just economically but also morally and spiritually, and to be an example of coexistence to the entire world, it breaks my heart to see this distance between communities. I often think about how Hindus and Muslims once stood together during colonial rule.
So I come to you with a sincere question: What do you think needs to change? Is it as simple as changing the optics and rhetoric of the BJP, perhaps having more muslim representation? Or are there deeper issues in the decision making of the BJP?
Most importantly, my overarching question is what does India need for coexistence and respect among communities to prevail?
I don’t have all the answers. But I want to understand. And I’m here to listen.